another 2nd "date" question

[thirdtimescharm]

First meeting was a sleepover...great fun, but leaving room for more. Attration level high. Good contact since, so it's gone beyond one-night stand.

Tomorrow night, I am supposed to attend a friend's birthday dinner.

Is it appropriate to invite her to attend with me? Honestly, I'd probably rather just go be anywhere alone with her, and considering our first time together was a trip straight back to my apartment, I'm not feeling the "dinner with friends" is the right direction just yet.

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

Hey..I think your gut has provided you with the answer.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Yea Andy, you are right. I'm just torn on how to best make our next rendezvous happen.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

As much as I might get taken to task for this, I emailed her in a fairly light tone, without saying when, that I wanted to get together again. Her response was definite: she said she will call me tomorrow to make a plan, and would like to hang out again.

Now, I don't think this is a bad thing since it will be a chance for her to prove herself to me. If she calls, she shows that she does what she says. If she doesn't, it's an easy "next."

 

[thirdtimescharm]

The good news is that this woman did call me as advertsied and we saw each other again last night. She attended a show last night with friends, while I went to a street fest on my own but ended up running into a bunch of people I know. And then later in the evening, she texted me and she came to the bar where I was, and life is good.