"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Annoying Vs Funny/Flirty

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S.Y.L

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I sometimes have problems being funny and flirty, a few girls have said I can be pretty annoying.

How do I be less annoying I guess, and how to look for signs when she doesnt seem amused
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aww, Crap.

Wrong Forum, can a Mod move this
 
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Sounds like you're either trying too hard (i.e. being fake), overdoing it/too often, at inappropriate times, or your humor isn't the type to swoon girls over with. Give us some examples of what you're doing.
 
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dont tell her nothing...........switch the mirros maybe.............like wat i did..........give her a note saying its time for u 2 see the side that u show me and i wont hide..........act like her.....tell your family everything about her........she'll get sick of it.........
 
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avoid being the DANCING MONKEY..............your goal is to be amusing not goofy.

HUMOR is attractive, acting like a FOOL is anti-attractive.

Confidence has a lot to do with it but ummmm you really gotta be more than just a baffoon. Some people are just plain not funny.........I would factor in some other aspects or become a master comedian.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lmao, im always goofy as ****, class clown alot

guess i should change
 
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