"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Annoying Vs Funny/Flirty

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S.Y.L

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I sometimes have problems being funny and flirty, a few girls have said I can be pretty annoying.

How do I be less annoying I guess, and how to look for signs when she doesnt seem amused
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aww, Crap.

Wrong Forum, can a Mod move this
 
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Sounds like you're either trying too hard (i.e. being fake), overdoing it/too often, at inappropriate times, or your humor isn't the type to swoon girls over with. Give us some examples of what you're doing.
 
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dont tell her nothing...........switch the mirros maybe.............like wat i did..........give her a note saying its time for u 2 see the side that u show me and i wont hide..........act like her.....tell your family everything about her........she'll get sick of it.........
 
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avoid being the DANCING MONKEY..............your goal is to be amusing not goofy.

HUMOR is attractive, acting like a FOOL is anti-attractive.

Confidence has a lot to do with it but ummmm you really gotta be more than just a baffoon. Some people are just plain not funny.........I would factor in some other aspects or become a master comedian.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lmao, im always goofy as ****, class clown alot

guess i should change
 
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Think before you speak.
 
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