"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Annoying Vs Funny/Flirty

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I sometimes have problems being funny and flirty, a few girls have said I can be pretty annoying.

How do I be less annoying I guess, and how to look for signs when she doesnt seem amused
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aww, Crap.

Wrong Forum, can a Mod move this
 
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Sounds like you're either trying too hard (i.e. being fake), overdoing it/too often, at inappropriate times, or your humor isn't the type to swoon girls over with. Give us some examples of what you're doing.
 
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dont tell her nothing...........switch the mirros maybe.............like wat i did..........give her a note saying its time for u 2 see the side that u show me and i wont hide..........act like her.....tell your family everything about her........she'll get sick of it.........
 
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avoid being the DANCING MONKEY..............your goal is to be amusing not goofy.

HUMOR is attractive, acting like a FOOL is anti-attractive.

Confidence has a lot to do with it but ummmm you really gotta be more than just a baffoon. Some people are just plain not funny.........I would factor in some other aspects or become a master comedian.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lmao, im always goofy as ****, class clown alot

guess i should change
 
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