"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Annoying Vs Funny/Flirty

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I sometimes have problems being funny and flirty, a few girls have said I can be pretty annoying.

How do I be less annoying I guess, and how to look for signs when she doesnt seem amused
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aww, Crap.

Wrong Forum, can a Mod move this
 
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Sounds like you're either trying too hard (i.e. being fake), overdoing it/too often, at inappropriate times, or your humor isn't the type to swoon girls over with. Give us some examples of what you're doing.
 
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dont tell her nothing...........switch the mirros maybe.............like wat i did..........give her a note saying its time for u 2 see the side that u show me and i wont hide..........act like her.....tell your family everything about her........she'll get sick of it.........
 
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avoid being the DANCING MONKEY..............your goal is to be amusing not goofy.

HUMOR is attractive, acting like a FOOL is anti-attractive.

Confidence has a lot to do with it but ummmm you really gotta be more than just a baffoon. Some people are just plain not funny.........I would factor in some other aspects or become a master comedian.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lmao, im always goofy as ****, class clown alot

guess i should change
 
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