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Don Juan
Bible_Belt said:"oh I'm sorry, what did you say again? I was looking at my phone."
Bump
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt said:"oh I'm sorry, what did you say again? I was looking at my phone."
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I can picture this clearly :crackup:pdx1138 said:It certainly is.
I remember this one plate talking about a motorcycle trip in another state with some dude who would fly her in occasionally.
I reacted as if I didn't have a care in the world and told her I was happy for her and to have a good time.
her response: "maybe I shouldn't go"
:crackup:
If we are socially conditioned to play different roles in a relationship, why are many women about a guy's looks?JaegerPilot217 said:that they always or usually want us to lead, and whenever people argue that by saying "because your a Man, that's why, grow some balls" honestly makes me feel like making somebody squeal like a dog as I break their ****in' neck, hate how I was dealt with this card for being born a guy
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What do you mean about a guys looks?sambwoy said:If we are socially conditioned to play different roles in a relationship, why are many women about a guy's looks?
I would've asked her to bring a souvenir next time. hahapdx1138 said:It certainly is.
I remember this one plate talking about a motorcycle trip in another state with some dude who would fly her in occasionally.
I reacted as if I didn't have a care in the world and told her I was happy for her and to have a good time.
her response: "maybe I shouldn't go"
:crackup:
Attraction in the looks department is based of what would produce the best offspring. If you find a particular female attractive, its your bodies way of saying "hey if I ****ed her our kids would come out good" This is the same for females, but to a lesser extent, as we all know the other factors that play a role in female attraction. if a female isn't attracted to you cause' your ugly, step you other game up.sambwoy said:If we are socially conditioned to play different roles in a relationship, why are many women about a guy's looks?
If they aren't attracted, they'll act condescending to you. I have had a ton of this behaviour before when I expressed my problems with body image in the past- all you get is criticism/examination but no help, not just looks but daily tasks/social interactions and how another person goes about life, not just men but other women. The YouTube/Facebook and celeb magazine era also exemplifies this, as well as what I have witnessed in my youth.SmooveMooves said:if a female isn't attracted to you cause' your ugly, step you other game up.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I feel you bro, the truth is, they don't gain anything. The world is cruel. Humans are selfish and shallow creatures. Did you know anytime you gossip or talk about someone else you stimulate dopamine receptors? Knowledge is the key I believe, this era that we live in is terrible.sambwoy said:If they aren't attracted, they'll act condescending to you. I have had a ton of this behaviour before when I expressed my problems with body image in the past- all you get is criticism/examination but no help, not just looks but daily tasks/social interactions and how another person goes about life, not just men but other women. The YouTube/Facebook and celeb magazine era also exemplifies this, as well as what I have witnessed in my youth.
What do they gain from acting like this- looking their noses down at a man or woman who need psychological/mental help as well as image help?
In spite what I put about YouTube/Facebook, it is good that younger guys can go on the internet and get advice, away from BS/propaganda TV and people's behaviour. I had a hard time worrying about interactions with women generally already, let alone getting the approval of one you like, worrying about 'was I rude?' or 'did I do the right thing?'. Why do I care anyway? Is it because attractive women can, by default, get more social power? Am I actually gay?SmooveMooves said:I feel you bro, the truth is, they don't gain anything. The world is cruel. Humans are selfish and shallow creatures. Did you know anytime you gossip or talk about someone else you stimulate dopamine receptors? Knowledge is the key I believe, this era that we live in is terrible.
Well first, sexual orientation just depends on what sex your attracted too, so if yourself capable of getting sexually excited over the same sex, then you're gay. Next, you should never be seeking approval of a woman, especially if its one you like. That's where they get us. Society has conditioned men to "prove themselves" to women as if they are the prize, when in fact its the complete opposite.sambwoy said:In spite what I put about YouTube/Facebook, it is good that younger guys can go on the internet and get advice, away from BS/propaganda TV and people's behaviour. I had a hard time worrying about interactions with women generally already, let alone getting the approval of one you like, worrying about 'was I rude?' or 'did I do the right thing?'. Why do I care anyway? Is it because attractive women can, by default, get more social power? Am I actually gay?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If I'm not gay, then why do I let this bother me? A woman's approval? Why? Okay, I don't want children and I would have sex with a condom and sure people say sex isn't all that, but still....all this worrying about 'was I rude? did I say the right thing?', even just socially, never mind flirting/attraction.SmooveMooves said:Well first, sexual orientation just depends on what sex your attracted too, so if yourself capable of getting sexually excited over the same sex, then you're gay.
Because in a current society HB3's walk around like Angelina Jolie and betas just looking to get their **** wet take action. lmaoPeasantPlayer said:Sexual attraction has to do with what offspring you would produce? Why are there so many ugly people then lol
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.