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Bible_Belt said:"oh I'm sorry, what did you say again? I was looking at my phone."
Bump
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt said:"oh I'm sorry, what did you say again? I was looking at my phone."
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I can picture this clearly :crackup:pdx1138 said:It certainly is.
I remember this one plate talking about a motorcycle trip in another state with some dude who would fly her in occasionally.
I reacted as if I didn't have a care in the world and told her I was happy for her and to have a good time.
her response: "maybe I shouldn't go"
:crackup:
If we are socially conditioned to play different roles in a relationship, why are many women about a guy's looks?JaegerPilot217 said:that they always or usually want us to lead, and whenever people argue that by saying "because your a Man, that's why, grow some balls" honestly makes me feel like making somebody squeal like a dog as I break their ****in' neck, hate how I was dealt with this card for being born a guy
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What do you mean about a guys looks?sambwoy said:If we are socially conditioned to play different roles in a relationship, why are many women about a guy's looks?
I would've asked her to bring a souvenir next time. hahapdx1138 said:It certainly is.
I remember this one plate talking about a motorcycle trip in another state with some dude who would fly her in occasionally.
I reacted as if I didn't have a care in the world and told her I was happy for her and to have a good time.
her response: "maybe I shouldn't go"
:crackup:
Attraction in the looks department is based of what would produce the best offspring. If you find a particular female attractive, its your bodies way of saying "hey if I ****ed her our kids would come out good" This is the same for females, but to a lesser extent, as we all know the other factors that play a role in female attraction. if a female isn't attracted to you cause' your ugly, step you other game up.sambwoy said:If we are socially conditioned to play different roles in a relationship, why are many women about a guy's looks?
If they aren't attracted, they'll act condescending to you. I have had a ton of this behaviour before when I expressed my problems with body image in the past- all you get is criticism/examination but no help, not just looks but daily tasks/social interactions and how another person goes about life, not just men but other women. The YouTube/Facebook and celeb magazine era also exemplifies this, as well as what I have witnessed in my youth.SmooveMooves said:if a female isn't attracted to you cause' your ugly, step you other game up.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I feel you bro, the truth is, they don't gain anything. The world is cruel. Humans are selfish and shallow creatures. Did you know anytime you gossip or talk about someone else you stimulate dopamine receptors? Knowledge is the key I believe, this era that we live in is terrible.sambwoy said:If they aren't attracted, they'll act condescending to you. I have had a ton of this behaviour before when I expressed my problems with body image in the past- all you get is criticism/examination but no help, not just looks but daily tasks/social interactions and how another person goes about life, not just men but other women. The YouTube/Facebook and celeb magazine era also exemplifies this, as well as what I have witnessed in my youth.
What do they gain from acting like this- looking their noses down at a man or woman who need psychological/mental help as well as image help?
In spite what I put about YouTube/Facebook, it is good that younger guys can go on the internet and get advice, away from BS/propaganda TV and people's behaviour. I had a hard time worrying about interactions with women generally already, let alone getting the approval of one you like, worrying about 'was I rude?' or 'did I do the right thing?'. Why do I care anyway? Is it because attractive women can, by default, get more social power? Am I actually gay?SmooveMooves said:I feel you bro, the truth is, they don't gain anything. The world is cruel. Humans are selfish and shallow creatures. Did you know anytime you gossip or talk about someone else you stimulate dopamine receptors? Knowledge is the key I believe, this era that we live in is terrible.
Well first, sexual orientation just depends on what sex your attracted too, so if yourself capable of getting sexually excited over the same sex, then you're gay. Next, you should never be seeking approval of a woman, especially if its one you like. That's where they get us. Society has conditioned men to "prove themselves" to women as if they are the prize, when in fact its the complete opposite.sambwoy said:In spite what I put about YouTube/Facebook, it is good that younger guys can go on the internet and get advice, away from BS/propaganda TV and people's behaviour. I had a hard time worrying about interactions with women generally already, let alone getting the approval of one you like, worrying about 'was I rude?' or 'did I do the right thing?'. Why do I care anyway? Is it because attractive women can, by default, get more social power? Am I actually gay?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If I'm not gay, then why do I let this bother me? A woman's approval? Why? Okay, I don't want children and I would have sex with a condom and sure people say sex isn't all that, but still....all this worrying about 'was I rude? did I say the right thing?', even just socially, never mind flirting/attraction.SmooveMooves said:Well first, sexual orientation just depends on what sex your attracted too, so if yourself capable of getting sexually excited over the same sex, then you're gay.
Because in a current society HB3's walk around like Angelina Jolie and betas just looking to get their **** wet take action. lmaoPeasantPlayer said:Sexual attraction has to do with what offspring you would produce? Why are there so many ugly people then lol
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.