"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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oElS

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this guy is always like 'oels, i see you checking out (girl)' right in front of that girl, what is a good response to that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Caveman

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You should check her out too instead of checking ME out!!
 

Porky

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Ask him why he's jealous enough of her that he feels the need to bring it up.
 

Jerky Boi

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Ignore him. I can't stand guys like that. He's obviously an ass and is "trying" to embarrass you. Or you could play along with it..Something like "So, I know I was." It's all up to you though. Guys like that aren't hard to handle.
 

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I like Cavemans idea.

If a mate n I are chilling and A hotass chick walks by, n he he turns to check her out, I'll look at ehr, adn when shes gone I'll alwwyas be like "yeeeey josh! I saw u checkin out that fine ass!"[this is usually at school, otherwise we'd approach]
^not what u mean, yes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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This happened to me one time.

I was in the library and this chick was getting magazines, so i was checking out her ass. Then this guy near me was like "why are you checking out (girl's name) ass" she immedietely covers it with a magazine :p and i say to him. the real question is why weren't you. so he muttered something like, i was. it was funny.

Screw the chicks feelings, if they didn't want guys to look at their curves, they shouldn't wear something that shows them.
 

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Originally posted by oElS
this guy is always like 'oels, i see you checking out (girl)' right in front of that girl, what is a good response to that?
Guy: "'oels, I see you checking out that girl!"
You: "Yeah, your point?"

Frankly your friend should be proud you're scoping out the fine girls :)
 
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