"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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annoyed how ex still talks to me, but for lame reasons

j8snx1

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okay, so ive already decided not to burn bridges b/w me and her but it's not cool how she, as well as other people on my AIM list, talk to me, and ONLY talk to me to get something out of me

just a while ago she IMs me with a casual tone of heys and how are yous. as a DJ i just hit off my usual convo stuff. my c&f and what not is wasted and she immediately asks for what she wanted to ask me (**** like "do you know so-and-so's phone number?) then she stops talking. just to be a good guy, i try to keep the convo going for fun, and immediate response is "brb" or some other lousy excuse to ditch and f*ck around with other friends.

i dont want to be a jerk to her or any of my "friends" but sh*t like that only fuels my passion to cuss them out and tell them to piss off and never talk to me ever again.

SO....

AS A recovering and still growing DJ, what should i do with ppl like that? :box:

PS: Im very tempted to say something like "dont f*cking IM me if you're going to just ask for stupid self-serving, greedy-@$$, worthless sh*t and then go on to pretend like I dont exist anymore."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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donpepot

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keep your cool...just be indifferent and polite...be unphased by the break up..she just want to get your attention...you see the first thing she will feel is...her ego will be bruised...keep ot up...act you dont care and have no grudges... and cut her calls short... about your friends just show to them your cool..and by the way..dont ever mention about that your been involved to this site espesially to yur friemds if dhe cought your intentions...it may not work...
 

Phat

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ur bein to nice to her man.. just block her.
 

WhAcKeD!

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I've got an idea, maybe you should stop talking to her?

Seems like your stuck in the past, pulling DJ moves on your ex, get over her and stop talking to her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donpepot

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be cool and keep your composure and confidence and be the prize and youl see
 
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