"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And you thought YOU had oneitis

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My friend asked this girl out 6 months ago, and she politely turned him down. He registered a spoof Facebook account with one name, and got accepted into her Friends list. He made another name and was accepted on this girl's BF's list as well. My friend found out he was a bartender and frequently goes in there by himself for drinks. I asked him why and he said "To observe this guy's mannerisms, verbage, and body language".

He plans on monitoring this girl's page as well so he can "accidently" bump into her with his new persona. If that doesn't work he's going to try and date one of her close good looking friends in an attempt to make this girl jealous.

I told him to stop putting girl's on a pedestal and he told me it was more about control and power. I was going to tell him about this site but I don't want my friends knowing I post here, lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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good to know i'm not the only one who does this:D
 
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lol, dude seems like a male version of the psycho facebook stalker chicks everyone fears...
 
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the opening post sounds like the opening case for the prosecution of a future murderer, thats not just oneitis, thats obsession, its even more unhealthy
 
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