"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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And you thought YOU had oneitis

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My friend asked this girl out 6 months ago, and she politely turned him down. He registered a spoof Facebook account with one name, and got accepted into her Friends list. He made another name and was accepted on this girl's BF's list as well. My friend found out he was a bartender and frequently goes in there by himself for drinks. I asked him why and he said "To observe this guy's mannerisms, verbage, and body language".

He plans on monitoring this girl's page as well so he can "accidently" bump into her with his new persona. If that doesn't work he's going to try and date one of her close good looking friends in an attempt to make this girl jealous.

I told him to stop putting girl's on a pedestal and he told me it was more about control and power. I was going to tell him about this site but I don't want my friends knowing I post here, lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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good to know i'm not the only one who does this:D
 
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lol, dude seems like a male version of the psycho facebook stalker chicks everyone fears...
 
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the opening post sounds like the opening case for the prosecution of a future murderer, thats not just oneitis, thats obsession, its even more unhealthy
 
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