"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And you thought YOU had oneitis

GreatHornedOwl

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My friend asked this girl out 6 months ago, and she politely turned him down. He registered a spoof Facebook account with one name, and got accepted into her Friends list. He made another name and was accepted on this girl's BF's list as well. My friend found out he was a bartender and frequently goes in there by himself for drinks. I asked him why and he said "To observe this guy's mannerisms, verbage, and body language".

He plans on monitoring this girl's page as well so he can "accidently" bump into her with his new persona. If that doesn't work he's going to try and date one of her close good looking friends in an attempt to make this girl jealous.

I told him to stop putting girl's on a pedestal and he told me it was more about control and power. I was going to tell him about this site but I don't want my friends knowing I post here, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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good to know i'm not the only one who does this:D
 

marmel75

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lol, dude seems like a male version of the psycho facebook stalker chicks everyone fears...
 

betheman

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the opening post sounds like the opening case for the prosecution of a future murderer, thats not just oneitis, thats obsession, its even more unhealthy
 
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