"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And if you die tommorow?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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one can use dreams to overcome fear of approaching women.
dream analysis is very powerful
izza
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But here's a question for you (I hate anybody who asks this and now I'm 'that guy'): if I knew I were going to die tomorrow, I would spend all my money. But if I live to be 80, I would be a fool to have spent all my money. How can you live for the moment and for the long term at the same time?
(Good call on the dream analysis. For the past two weeks, I've been dreaming of "making moves on women" since that's what I have a lot of trouble doing. It's really funny, I wonder if it will have helped.)
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I'd be dead, how could I regret or think about it!
Oh comeon, no one put this answer yet..? Shiit..
Good post though
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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As for life...going...aww..I wish I did that...not really.
izza
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I have to say, I don't feel like I would give much of a **** about not having approached some hot chick. I mean, wa wa wa I didn't approach a few women. I'd be DEAD!
I've made bigger mistakes than that. I'm not going to sit here and be like, "oh I would regret it with the burning pain of a thousand suns." Fvck that sh!t, WHO CARES!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lol stupid tip:/
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
izza
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Does anybody enjoy their full possibilities? Do you? I didn't think so.ThatDude said:
You make a good point. I am dead right now, I live like a dead man. I have zero gratitude for the wondrous gift of life that has been handed to me. I live as if I had already failed, as if my life were already over.
You're right, it's about the bigger picture, not just about chicks.
izza
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Haha, hhhwhat? Yo man, I'll take the victory (?) although, I didn't even know there was a competition, and I don't rightly know what you're talking about.ThatDude said:
I was just curious, where is the dividing line between someone who is dead and someone who is alive? It seems to me that no people fulfill all their possibilities, and nobody neglects all of them either.
God I think too much!
Have I mentioned this is a great post? I'm not trying to flame, I'm just venting my frustrations. Sorry if there was some confusion!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.