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Analyze the situation for me.

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Basically, I got to know this girl at school who was pretty attractive and was no doubt an attention *****, always liking to get attention from other people. Although the DJs state not to pursue attention *****s because they're high maintenance and not worth your time, I wanted to give myself a challenge and see what could erupt from it anyway.

We went out during the night time and she was doing some things to initiate Kino on me (leaning her head against me), and once I had picked up on that, I began to initiate Kino on her as well, but I think I was a bit too agressive in the situation where I would just find an excuse to use Kino when I could, bad move.

Anyway I had to call her up today to get some information regarding an assignment we're working on, and she said "You don't have too much respect for me, do you?" and also said "I had busy hands."

Ouch. Heh, what do I make out of this situation? Probably best to just forget about her now, right?
Responses are highly appreciated.

Note: I see her every day at school, so somehow this will come up again.
 
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If it bothered her, she would have stopped you.
 

jonny football hero

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Well, i suppose some C+F wouldn't have gone amis when she said that about "busy hands".
 

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Jonny: Hm, care to elaborate on how I could've been C+F in the situation? I can still rectify it.
 

jonny football hero

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Forgive me, i'm very tired so if this doesn't make sense......

Her: You have really busy hands
You: some C +F sh!t (sorry can't be arsed to think of one)

Makes you seem not bothered even though she delivered what seems as an insult, making you seem fun.
 

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jonny: Gotcha. I get what you're trying to say.

What's so wrong about playing around with her on the first outing we had? It was all fun, and I thought she realized that too.
 

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Nothing is wrong. It's a test women perform on "potential males".
 

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Her: You got busy hands
You: Of corse Im a busy man

:D That's the only shyt i could think of:p
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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response...

HB: You had busy hands and don't respect me.

You: ME!?!? You were the one molesting my hands all night....where is your respect for me baby?
 
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