"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyze the situation for me.

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Basically, I got to know this girl at school who was pretty attractive and was no doubt an attention *****, always liking to get attention from other people. Although the DJs state not to pursue attention *****s because they're high maintenance and not worth your time, I wanted to give myself a challenge and see what could erupt from it anyway.

We went out during the night time and she was doing some things to initiate Kino on me (leaning her head against me), and once I had picked up on that, I began to initiate Kino on her as well, but I think I was a bit too agressive in the situation where I would just find an excuse to use Kino when I could, bad move.

Anyway I had to call her up today to get some information regarding an assignment we're working on, and she said "You don't have too much respect for me, do you?" and also said "I had busy hands."

Ouch. Heh, what do I make out of this situation? Probably best to just forget about her now, right?
Responses are highly appreciated.

Note: I see her every day at school, so somehow this will come up again.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If it bothered her, she would have stopped you.
 

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Well, i suppose some C+F wouldn't have gone amis when she said that about "busy hands".
 

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Jonny: Hm, care to elaborate on how I could've been C+F in the situation? I can still rectify it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jonny football hero

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Forgive me, i'm very tired so if this doesn't make sense......

Her: You have really busy hands
You: some C +F sh!t (sorry can't be arsed to think of one)

Makes you seem not bothered even though she delivered what seems as an insult, making you seem fun.
 

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jonny: Gotcha. I get what you're trying to say.

What's so wrong about playing around with her on the first outing we had? It was all fun, and I thought she realized that too.
 

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Nothing is wrong. It's a test women perform on "potential males".
 

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Her: You got busy hands
You: Of corse Im a busy man

:D That's the only shyt i could think of:p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HB: You had busy hands and don't respect me.

You: ME!?!? You were the one molesting my hands all night....where is your respect for me baby?
 
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