I dont, I usually do things different,, but there's simply just days that I don't feel being witty or over thinking what to text to come off as original. that's why I say that text is just a minimum to the momentum you already built in person. So with high interest it shouldn't make a huge difference in her. I will be looking forward to see it.Zion said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
analyse this text convo
- Thread starter pyros
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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My reply: sorry if you got the wrong idea.. I was only saying what up, not looking for a salsa date. take care
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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This is bull****e, I never put more effort than is absolutely necessary into my texts. I'm not a ****ing jester, I am a grown ass man who is going to use standard, every day language to do something as simple as seeing if a girl is feee Wednesday night. I'm not trying to impress her, I want to know if she is interested and available. If she isn't, I don't want to chamge her mind, I want to go find someone who is.:-) said:
pyros
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yeah, it seems some people think that by being a texting clown you get points. LOL.
I can have a fun, light text exchange, but that happens once she's replied with some enthusiasm first, shows some interest and we're having a conversation.
Since she didn't show any interest, I have nothing else to say to her, besides the pinnapple emoticon I sent.
I can have a fun, light text exchange, but that happens once she's replied with some enthusiasm first, shows some interest and we're having a conversation.
Since she didn't show any interest, I have nothing else to say to her, besides the pinnapple emoticon I sent.
You don't need to a be a court jester but seriously. Anything would be better than how are you? It just shows a complete lack of imagination and effort. My Auntie sends me texts like this. Half the time I won't respond because how do you answer that? I'm fine. How are you? It's a stupid question.johnywhite17 said:
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Good sign she remembers who you are.
Her - I'm not going to salsa until Sunday.
You - that figure's, I thought you weeere the once a week type madam.
If she responds. Ask her out.
Her - I'm not going to salsa until Sunday.
You - that figure's, I thought you weeere the once a week type madam.
If she responds. Ask her out.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.