I dont, I usually do things different,, but there's simply just days that I don't feel being witty or over thinking what to text to come off as original. that's why I say that text is just a minimum to the momentum you already built in person. So with high interest it shouldn't make a huge difference in her. I will be looking forward to see it.Zion said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
analyse this text convo
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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My reply: sorry if you got the wrong idea.. I was only saying what up, not looking for a salsa date. take care
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This is bull****e, I never put more effort than is absolutely necessary into my texts. I'm not a ****ing jester, I am a grown ass man who is going to use standard, every day language to do something as simple as seeing if a girl is feee Wednesday night. I'm not trying to impress her, I want to know if she is interested and available. If she isn't, I don't want to chamge her mind, I want to go find someone who is.:-) said:
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yeah, it seems some people think that by being a texting clown you get points. LOL.
I can have a fun, light text exchange, but that happens once she's replied with some enthusiasm first, shows some interest and we're having a conversation.
Since she didn't show any interest, I have nothing else to say to her, besides the pinnapple emoticon I sent.
I can have a fun, light text exchange, but that happens once she's replied with some enthusiasm first, shows some interest and we're having a conversation.
Since she didn't show any interest, I have nothing else to say to her, besides the pinnapple emoticon I sent.
You don't need to a be a court jester but seriously. Anything would be better than how are you? It just shows a complete lack of imagination and effort. My Auntie sends me texts like this. Half the time I won't respond because how do you answer that? I'm fine. How are you? It's a stupid question.johnywhite17 said:
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Good sign she remembers who you are.
Her - I'm not going to salsa until Sunday.
You - that figure's, I thought you weeere the once a week type madam.
If she responds. Ask her out.
Her - I'm not going to salsa until Sunday.
You - that figure's, I thought you weeere the once a week type madam.
If she responds. Ask her out.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.