I dont, I usually do things different,, but there's simply just days that I don't feel being witty or over thinking what to text to come off as original. that's why I say that text is just a minimum to the momentum you already built in person. So with high interest it shouldn't make a huge difference in her. I will be looking forward to see it.Zion said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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My reply: sorry if you got the wrong idea.. I was only saying what up, not looking for a salsa date. take care
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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This is bull****e, I never put more effort than is absolutely necessary into my texts. I'm not a ****ing jester, I am a grown ass man who is going to use standard, every day language to do something as simple as seeing if a girl is feee Wednesday night. I'm not trying to impress her, I want to know if she is interested and available. If she isn't, I don't want to chamge her mind, I want to go find someone who is.:-) said:
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yeah, it seems some people think that by being a texting clown you get points. LOL.
I can have a fun, light text exchange, but that happens once she's replied with some enthusiasm first, shows some interest and we're having a conversation.
Since she didn't show any interest, I have nothing else to say to her, besides the pinnapple emoticon I sent.
I can have a fun, light text exchange, but that happens once she's replied with some enthusiasm first, shows some interest and we're having a conversation.
Since she didn't show any interest, I have nothing else to say to her, besides the pinnapple emoticon I sent.
You don't need to a be a court jester but seriously. Anything would be better than how are you? It just shows a complete lack of imagination and effort. My Auntie sends me texts like this. Half the time I won't respond because how do you answer that? I'm fine. How are you? It's a stupid question.johnywhite17 said:
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Good sign she remembers who you are.
Her - I'm not going to salsa until Sunday.
You - that figure's, I thought you weeere the once a week type madam.
If she responds. Ask her out.
Her - I'm not going to salsa until Sunday.
You - that figure's, I thought you weeere the once a week type madam.
If she responds. Ask her out.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.