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It’s just one of those things It’s a fetish and taboo An ex of mine loved it but her sphincter was always clean. Perhaps it’s good hygiene or avoidance at dining at a Taco Bell.
A good friend loves to get off on a girls feet. Never understood it because I always visualized having a corned, calloused foot fungi rubbing up against my junk.
To each - his own.
 

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That is interesting though - because from my perspective I don't think there is anything remotely submissive on the guy's part when engaging in anal. Sh1t or no sh1t. She is in a much more compromising position than standard sex and you have all of the power. The cleanliness argument I do understand. Some just aren't going to be into it.
There's a few things that are submissive about it. Firstly, you are communicating to her that you like putting your penis inside of anuses. This is somewhat gay, even if it is a female anus.

Secondly, she is putting her dirtiness on you. Imagine you're banging a girl and she starts pissing on you. That's also quite submissive. I see the masculine role as you are violating her with your bodily fluids and leaving your mark on her. If she is tattooing your d1ck with her sh1t then she's, in a way, cummed inside you by leaving her dirty poo lodged in your d1ck. The female anus is like a d1ck in that regard.
 

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That is interesting though - because from my perspective I don't think there is anything remotely submissive on the guy's part when engaging in anal. Sh1t or no sh1t. She is in a much more compromising position than standard sex and you have all of the power. The cleanliness argument I do understand. Some just aren't going to be into it.
You guys with your talk of how you think you "dominate".... It's quite obvious you're over compensating for something you lack.

Just fvck hard. That should be enough... And should be mutually enjoyable. But when you cross the line to start talking in a humiliating or degrading fashion... Then it's obvious that you're not doing it right.
 

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There's a few things that are submissive about it. Firstly, you are communicating to her that you like putting your penis inside of anuses. This is somewhat gay, even if it is a female anus.

Secondly, she is putting her dirtiness on you. Imagine you're banging a girl and she starts pissing on you. That's also quite submissive. I see the masculine role as you are violating her with your bodily fluids and leaving your mark on her. If she is tattooing your d1ck with her sh1t then she's, in a way, cummed inside you by leaving her dirty poo lodged in your d1ck. The female anus is like a d1ck in that regard.
I don’t think it is quite that deep. But I understand why you feel the way you do.
 

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You guys with your talk of how you think you "dominate".... It's quite obvious you're over compensating for something you lack.

Just fvck hard. That should be enough... And should be mutually enjoyable. But when you cross the line to start talking in a humiliating or degrading fashion... Then it's obvious that you're not doing it right.
Says the guy who only ever pays for sex.

Now paying for sex.....that's submissive.
 

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I was banging my ex in missionary about 4 years back, she had an orgasm and started doing kegels so I backed off, then as I kissed her again, I was 100% erect and new it would find its own way into her *****.

Anyway with all the P Juice It slipped straight up her ass, and carried on banging her that way.

she went real submissive it was very erotic looking back, the way she looked at me in shock & pleasure at the same time, I think it helped i couldnt see down there though.
 
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like, doesn't she need to get an enema first?
Time for a real tip about anal. I occasionally do anal and there has never been an enema involved.

I always finger her pvssy first, while you're in there you can push "down" to check if her rectum is empty. If it's not you'll feel something lumpy and firm giving resistance, you can feel through her vagina whether there's sh!t in her rectum or not due to how thin and soft the tissue in between is. If it's soft all over then her rectum is likely empty, if not then you have a choice to discreetly do something else or go for it anyways.

Another tip is to use a LOT of lube, even if there is sh!t in there you won't pull it out on your d!ck easily, pull out slowly. Even if you do feel something further in you could still go and pull out without any visible residue on your d!ck if enough lube is involved. Shower your d!ck with soap afterwards and it's all clean anyways.

The exception is if she has very loose or liquid sh!t, if that's the case you can only hope she has enough sense to warn you before you go in. She would definitely need an enema in that case!
 

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One of my exes and I made anal a regular thing when having sex. I would make her orgasm with regular sex and she would let me finish by banging her in the ass. I feel she was "cleaner" because she was a vegetarian. All I needed to do was stick a couple fingers in her behind, lube the **** out of it and go.
 

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I was able to try anal for the first time a couple weeks ago. Maybe I was just too into it, but I didn't notice any kind of off putting smells, and there was no shjt on my djck.
 

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One of my exes and I made anal a regular thing when having sex. I would make her orgasm with regular sex and she would let me finish by banging her in the ass. I feel she was "cleaner" because she was a vegetarian. All I needed to do was stick a couple fingers in her behind, lube the **** out of it and go.
Where is she now? .....er I mean what happened to that relationship
 

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Time for a real tip about anal. I occasionally do anal and there has never been an enema involved.

I always finger her pvssy first, while you're in there you can push "down" to check if her rectum is empty. If it's not you'll feel something lumpy and firm giving resistance, you can feel through her vagina whether there's sh!t in her rectum or not due to how thin and soft the tissue in between is. If it's soft all over then her rectum is likely empty, if not then you have a choice to discreetly do something else or go for it anyways.

Another tip is to use a LOT of lube, even if there is sh!t in there you won't pull it out on your d!ck easily, pull out slowly. Even if you do feel something further in you could still go and pull out without any visible residue on your d!ck if enough lube is involved. Shower your d!ck with soap afterwards and it's all clean anyways.

The exception is if she has very loose or liquid sh!t, if that's the case you can only hope she has enough sense to warn you before you go in. She would definitely need an enema in that case!
Horrendous. I couldn't think of anything worse than fishing for sh1t inside a girl I'm about to bang. You make it seem like a demonic medical procedure
 

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There's a few things that are submissive about it. Firstly, you are communicating to her that you like putting your penis inside of anuses. This is somewhat gay, even if it is a female anus.

Secondly, she is putting her dirtiness on you. Imagine you're banging a girl and she starts pissing on you. That's also quite submissive. I see the masculine role as you are violating her with your bodily fluids and leaving your mark on her. If she is tattooing your d1ck with her sh1t then she's, in a way, cummed inside you by leaving her dirty poo lodged in your d1ck. The female anus is like a d1ck in that regard.
People will make up anything to convince themself of being right
 

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Horrendous. I couldn't think of anything worse than fishing for sh1t inside a girl I'm about to bang. You make it seem like a demonic medical procedure
You make it sound like that. Next time your fingers are in a pvssy and she happens to have a sh!t inside her rectum you can't help but notice it now that I've told you about it, you're welcome.

That's how easy it is to notice.
 

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Firstly, you are communicating to her that you like putting your penis inside of anuses. This is somewhat gay, even if it is a female anus.
According to your 'logic' this would make you "somewhat gay." After all, when you pound the meat, it's (again, according to your logic) just like getting a hand-job from a dude.

Statistically, I've found that one out of every three are usually open to anal.
 

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According to your 'logic' this would make you "somewhat gay." After all, when you pound the meat, it's (again, according to your logic) just like getting a hand-job from a dude.

Statistically, I've found that one out of every three are usually open to anal.
I've only met a few women who have actually asked me to bang them up the ass. That tells me that women probably aren't into it, mostly. The cl!t and g-spot are also located on and inside the vagina. Men have a prostate which apparently makes anal sex pleasurable for men, which is why I see anal as a distinctly man-to-man love system.
 
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