shesabranchswinger
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Bottom plate or toss to the curb?
Bottom plate or toss to the curb?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It was a question to see what peoples responses to the situation would be on here. For example those were my responses to the situation. I assumed she had high interest and at the time I kicked her to the curb. But if I was in a drought I might kept her at the bottom of the stable for a few sessions it all depends if its feast or famine for me. Yes strappedI hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I have never known of a woman actually admitting she's a ho--interesting."Neil, I'm kind of a ho, but I'm not THAT much of a ho".
How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?If you really want to dominate a woman f uck her in the a ss from behind and pull her hair. I have had women that love anal because they have intense orgasms from it. Have had very few women turn down a ss f ucking.
Agreed. This is a big plus in my opinion.I have had anal with girls on first dates. Red flag? Maybe, but I don't give a shiz because all I want is sex and entertainment. If she is doing that then I'm fine. If she starts being a pain I move along.
Why do you guys over analyze everything? This is a really simple concept...f uck.....have fun....she starts being anoying....move along..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why? You can't get her pregnant up the azz..........up the bum no harm done...I hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
If you're going down on her, lightly get some puzzy juice on the anus.....even if you're fingering her, lightly brush the anus with puzzy juice on your finger........guage her reaction.......How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
After I get her really worked up and juicy I get the lube out and circle her and plunging my finger in and out. Then I stick a finger in her p ussy and anus and start driving my fingers in and out. Might slap a tit or pinch her nipple hard. Also you can lick her **** with the finger driving. Then I'll hoist her legs up and apart and drive my c ock in her a ss. I date women 30 plus so most of them have had anal. This direct and dominate approach might not work with a younger novice. Nothing quite like a woman moaning and screaming while you f uck her in the ass.How is anal a red flag? That doesn't make sense to me.
How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
Good technique, but don't stick the same finger in both holes. Could lead to an infection for her.After I get her really worked up and juicy I get the lube out and circle her and plunging my finger in and out. Then I stick a finger in her p ussy and anus and start driving my fingers in and out. Might slap a tit or pinch her nipple hard. Also you can lick her **** with the finger driving. Then I'll hoist her legs up and apart and drive my c ock in her a ss. I date women 30 plus so most of them have had anal. This direct and dominate approach might not work with a younger novice. Nothing quite like a woman moaning and screaming while you f uck her in the ass.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.