shesabranchswinger
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High Intrest low quality?
Bottom plate or toss to the curb?
Bottom plate or toss to the curb?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It was a question to see what peoples responses to the situation would be on here. For example those were my responses to the situation. I assumed she had high interest and at the time I kicked her to the curb. But if I was in a drought I might kept her at the bottom of the stable for a few sessions it all depends if its feast or famine for me. Yes strappedI hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I have never known of a woman actually admitting she's a ho--interesting."Neil, I'm kind of a ho, but I'm not THAT much of a ho".
How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?If you really want to dominate a woman f uck her in the a ss from behind and pull her hair. I have had women that love anal because they have intense orgasms from it. Have had very few women turn down a ss f ucking.
Agreed. This is a big plus in my opinion.I have had anal with girls on first dates. Red flag? Maybe, but I don't give a shiz because all I want is sex and entertainment. If she is doing that then I'm fine. If she starts being a pain I move along.
Why do you guys over analyze everything? This is a really simple concept...f uck.....have fun....she starts being anoying....move along..
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why? You can't get her pregnant up the azz..........up the bum no harm done...I hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
If you're going down on her, lightly get some puzzy juice on the anus.....even if you're fingering her, lightly brush the anus with puzzy juice on your finger........guage her reaction.......How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
After I get her really worked up and juicy I get the lube out and circle her and plunging my finger in and out. Then I stick a finger in her p ussy and anus and start driving my fingers in and out. Might slap a tit or pinch her nipple hard. Also you can lick her **** with the finger driving. Then I'll hoist her legs up and apart and drive my c ock in her a ss. I date women 30 plus so most of them have had anal. This direct and dominate approach might not work with a younger novice. Nothing quite like a woman moaning and screaming while you f uck her in the ass.How is anal a red flag? That doesn't make sense to me.
How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
Good technique, but don't stick the same finger in both holes. Could lead to an infection for her.After I get her really worked up and juicy I get the lube out and circle her and plunging my finger in and out. Then I stick a finger in her p ussy and anus and start driving my fingers in and out. Might slap a tit or pinch her nipple hard. Also you can lick her **** with the finger driving. Then I'll hoist her legs up and apart and drive my c ock in her a ss. I date women 30 plus so most of them have had anal. This direct and dominate approach might not work with a younger novice. Nothing quite like a woman moaning and screaming while you f uck her in the ass.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.