"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anal on the 1st date

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We're assuming you were on top, and it was a she?
 

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"Can you walk me through every interaction I'll ever have with a girl?"

Really?


You can't figure this one out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
 
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I hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
It was a question to see what peoples responses to the situation would be on here. For example those were my responses to the situation. I assumed she had high interest and at the time I kicked her to the curb. But if I was in a drought I might kept her at the bottom of the stable for a few sessions it all depends if its feast or famine for me. Yes strapped
 

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I have had anal with girls on first dates. Red flag? Maybe, but I don't give a shiz because all I want is sex and entertainment. If she is doing that then I'm fine. If she starts being a pain I move along.

Why do you guys over analyze everything? This is a really simple concept...f uck.....have fun....she starts being anoying....move along..
 

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I once had not only a first date, but a blind date, set up by my father, and she said "put it in my as-s" almost immediately. I didn't do it. That freaked me out.

I was with a 19 year old girl and tried on our first date and she said "Neil, I'm kind of a ho, but I'm not THAT much of a ho".

My gf and I never did that. Really not that into that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you really want to dominate a woman f uck her in the a ss from behind and pull her hair. I have had women that love anal because they have intense orgasms from it. Have had very few women turn down a ss f ucking.
 

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How is anal a red flag? That doesn't make sense to me.
If you really want to dominate a woman f uck her in the a ss from behind and pull her hair. I have had women that love anal because they have intense orgasms from it. Have had very few women turn down a ss f ucking.
How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
 

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I once put a small butt plug in a girl and then gave her both oral and vaginal sex and she had an earth shattering anal orgasm, along with a klitoral and cervical orgasm, and she passed out and kept the butt plug in for 4 hours.
 

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I have had anal with girls on first dates. Red flag? Maybe, but I don't give a shiz because all I want is sex and entertainment. If she is doing that then I'm fine. If she starts being a pain I move along.

Why do you guys over analyze everything? This is a really simple concept...f uck.....have fun....she starts being anoying....move along..
Agreed. This is a big plus in my opinion.

Nothing worse than being in a ltr with a girl and she won't give up the azz......it's like a part of her is broken. She's not the complete
package.....

I say this one's a keeper. (as far as your sexual strategy goes, which I completely agree with too)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She obviously likes it, has done before, and her comfort level is high if she gives up the backdoor on her first outing with you. She may even prefer it that way vs. the front side. She also may even need to mentally feel more physically dominated and taking it in the azz does it for her.
 
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I hope you had a condom on...for your own health's sake.
Why? You can't get her pregnant up the azz..........up the bum no harm done...

How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
If you're going down on her, lightly get some puzzy juice on the anus.....even if you're fingering her, lightly brush the anus with puzzy juice on your finger........guage her reaction.......

Get her doing reverse cowgirl and play and squeeze with her ass cheeks.......not met one chick who didn't love this position or who didn't love her azz being played with at the same time, gently spank her azz, gently introduce a thumb on top of the anus......rub her puzzy juice into it...........

.....slowly introduce azz play and gauge her openness or resistance to it. No point getting over excited and trying to ram your c=ck straight in with no warning or no warm up or no lube........

.....If she'll take your thumb, she will take your c=ck........
 

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How is anal a red flag? That doesn't make sense to me.

How the hell do you get them to do it in the first place if she's never done it before though?
After I get her really worked up and juicy I get the lube out and circle her and plunging my finger in and out. Then I stick a finger in her p ussy and anus and start driving my fingers in and out. Might slap a tit or pinch her nipple hard. Also you can lick her **** with the finger driving. Then I'll hoist her legs up and apart and drive my c ock in her a ss. I date women 30 plus so most of them have had anal. This direct and dominate approach might not work with a younger novice. Nothing quite like a woman moaning and screaming while you f uck her in the ass.
 

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After I get her really worked up and juicy I get the lube out and circle her and plunging my finger in and out. Then I stick a finger in her p ussy and anus and start driving my fingers in and out. Might slap a tit or pinch her nipple hard. Also you can lick her **** with the finger driving. Then I'll hoist her legs up and apart and drive my c ock in her a ss. I date women 30 plus so most of them have had anal. This direct and dominate approach might not work with a younger novice. Nothing quite like a woman moaning and screaming while you f uck her in the ass.
Good technique, but don't stick the same finger in both holes. Could lead to an infection for her.
 

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Anal on first date means that I like her ass and that if she gives it to me she gets free lunch the following day.

I reward madonnas and wh0res but nothing in the middle.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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