"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An unprotected start

SW15

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I just need more practice too man. I feel like Skyn is good, but as I mentioned it had been a WHILE since I have last had sex consistently. Excited to get back in the game though.
Skyn and Skyn Elite are both good options. Lifestyles Ultra Sensitive is good too. I've never used Trojan Bareskins someone I know likes them.

Very unwise as you can get an STI/STD this way too. Assuming you urinated after each time, the pull out method is approx. 82% - 87% effective if done perfectly. If she's mid-30's or higher and hadn't had any children yet; she's less likely to get pregnant. If she's younger than you, which I assume she is, chances are higher. Younger females are more fertile than older one's.
Since @TheNewStyle123 is 27, more of his women are going to be 22-27 and in the more fertile category.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stay with the one who likes to give it to you. 3 months of fvcking without games or being denied will get your man back at full masculinity.
Dude this is honestly some of the best advice I have gotten so far. I think I am so in my head from getting divorced that I'm finding it tough to go all in with new women. I have been on a few dates (one tonight in fact) and they have all been great, but I need a steady f!ck to really get my confidence, stamina, mindset, etc., all back up to pre marriage. These two chicks I'm seeing are down for anything and always willing to hang out. I think I am going to keep spinning them and get practice while trying to vet these two other chicks I have gone on first dates with but haven't actually banged yet.
 

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Not too tired, but losing sensitivity with the condom and just couldn't stay hard. And I'm not sure, could have been longer than 10 minutes I was just making the point I didn't bust until a while later. I didn't really time it lol. But I'm sure duration is something I need to practice. I am getting divorced currently and coming out of a marriage with a pretty much non-existent sex life, so I'm trying to get a few solid plates and some practice.
Yes, I too have pretty much given up with using a raincoat for the same reason. If I don't want to stick it in Door #1, there's always Door #3. :cool: And no, I have no desire for Door #2, since that is from whence #2 emerges. :eek:
 

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About the part of not cumming inside the girl I really made a mistake... It still has some risk of pregnant her.

About STD's, I really think the risks are very high to do it unprotected.
This part -
And if you did not *** inside that girl, the only thing you need to worry is about stds.

If the female is young or ovulating, you'd be surprised how many times the oops happens and an unwanted pregnancy happens. Just not worth it.. Unless you can see or feel the birth control, do NOT trust them.
 

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Skyn and Skyn Elite are both good options. Lifestyles Ultra Sensitive is good too. I've never used Trojan Bareskins someone I know likes them.



Since @TheNewStyle123 is 27, more of his women are going to be 22-27 and in the more fertile category.
According to the NIH and CDC, females are most fertile from their early teens through 24.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude this is honestly some of the best advice I have gotten so far. I think I am so in my head from getting divorced that I'm finding it tough to go all in with new women. I have been on a few dates (one tonight in fact) and they have all been great, but I need a steady f!ck to really get my confidence, stamina, mindset, etc., all back up to pre marriage. These two chicks I'm seeing are down for anything and always willing to hang out. I think I am going to keep spinning them and get practice while trying to vet these two other chicks I have gone on first dates with but haven't actually banged yet.
Fvck "dating" its about fvcking
 

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This part -
And if you did not *** inside that girl, the only thing you need to worry is about stds.

If the female is young or ovulating, you'd be surprised how many times the oops happens and an unwanted pregnancy happens. Just not worth it.. Unless you can see or feel the birth control, do NOT trust them.
Thats true. I didnt think about that when I was answering... But that makes a lot of sense.
 
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