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In my opinion you have a better chance at winning the lottery than getting her pregnant. Unless your insanely potent ! That being said you don’t really know this girl.... she could get knocked up by some other dude... and depending on your financial situation “ choose” to believe it’s yours hoping for a better provider. My buddy has a vasectomy and hooked up with a chick on a guys trip. He wore a rubber.. she kept telling him to take it off... he wouldn’t !!!! He banged her and he never finished.... he made it seem like he did. They kept in touch and 2 months later she called him and said they have a problem... she was pregnant!!!! Zero chance it was his... he informed her of the circumstances... said there is a zero percent chance.. rubber on, never blew his wad, and vasectomy..., she then played it off and said ohhh ok... thank god it’s gotta be my boyfriends then ... just avoid putting yourself in these situations if you can
so now your promoting cumming inside of them.
 

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so now your promoting cumming inside of them.
Absolutely not... I said the odds of him
Knocking up this chick with very brief unprotected sex is almost non existent. I said best to not even risk it because the chick can essentially get knocked up by someone else and try and pin it on you.

no where in my post did I say blow it in her.
 

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In my opinion you have a better chance at winning the lottery than getting her pregnant. Unless your insanely potent ! That being said you don’t really know this girl.... she could get knocked up by some other dude... and depending on your financial situation “ choose” to believe it’s yours hoping for a better provider. My buddy has a vasectomy and hooked up with a chick on a guys trip. He wore a rubber.. she kept telling him to take it off... he wouldn’t !!!! He banged her and he never finished.... he made it seem like he did. They kept in touch and 2 months later she called him and said they have a problem... she was pregnant!!!! Zero chance it was his... he informed her of the circumstances... said there is a zero percent chance.. rubber on, never blew his wad, and vasectomy..., she then played it off and said ohhh ok... thank god it’s gotta be my boyfriends then ... just avoid putting yourself in these situations if you can
GREAT advice buddy thank you. You can never rule out the fact she is banging other dudes and 'chooses' you as the one to assign the potential child to.
 

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If you don't want kids get a vasectomy. Best decision ever.
 

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Not to be a **** but ur 27 and u had sex for 10 minutes and had sex a second time an hour later but was unable to nut because u were too tired from round one? Forget about the preggo scare and go see a doctor. Your stamina should be way better then that.
 

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Here you go... :p

 

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Not to be a **** but ur 27 and u had sex for 10 minutes and had sex a second time an hour later but was unable to nut because u were too tired from round one? Forget about the preggo scare and go see a doctor. Your stamina should be way better then that.
I was also really surprised when I read that
 

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I'd say the bigger problem is being 27 and only lasting 10 minutes...
Not to be a **** but ur 27 and u had sex for 10 minutes and had sex a second time an hour later but was unable to nut because u were too tired from round one? Forget about the preggo scare and go see a doctor. Your stamina should be way better then that.
Not too tired, but losing sensitivity with the condom and just couldn't stay hard. And I'm not sure, could have been longer than 10 minutes I was just making the point I didn't bust until a while later. I didn't really time it lol. But I'm sure duration is something I need to practice. I am getting divorced currently and coming out of a marriage with a pretty much non-existent sex life, so I'm trying to get a few solid plates and some practice.
 

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Not too tired, but losing sensitivity with the condom and just couldn't stay hard. And I'm not sure, could have been longer than 10 minutes I was just making the point I didn't bust until a while later. I didn't really time it lol. But I'm sure duration is something I need to practice. I am getting divorced currently and coming out of a marriage with a pretty much non-existent sex life, so I'm trying to get a few solid plates and some practice.
I have a lot of practice with sex with condoms. They are not ideal but STDs and babies are worse outcomes. Some brands are slightly better than others. But there can be variation in feeling between days even using the same condom brand, which is annoying.
 

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I have a lot of practice with sex with condoms. They are not ideal but STDs and babies are worse outcomes. Some brands are slightly better than others. But there can be variation in feeling between days even using the same condom brand, which is annoying.
I just need more practice too man. I feel like Skyn is good, but as I mentioned it had been a WHILE since I have last had sex consistently. Excited to get back in the game though.
 

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Hello gentlemen.

About two weeks ago I matched with 'V' on one of the dating apps. We talked for a little bit over text and snapchat and she seemed pretty cool, attractive, funny, etc. We made plans for her to come over to my place, have some food, and watch a movie last night. After arriving (this was our first time officially meeting), we had some drinks, some food, and talked for a while. There was great chemistry between us and a lot of sexual tension. We began to make out on my couch and went into my bedroom.

Things started ramping up, and I began to encounter a problem that I have had in the past. This doesn't happen every time, but sometimes when I begin to put a condom on I will begin to lose an erection due to lack of sensitivity... last night was one of those times. We continued with foreplay, I got caught up in the moment (no excuses, I'm 27 years old and know better), and I entered her without a condom for about 30 seconds or less. After getting an erection this way, I pulled out, put on a condom, continued, and about 10 minutes later finished (pulled out with condom when finishing per usual).

After about an hour we had sex again. This time, I put it inside her for a few strokes just to get hard, immediately pulled out, and put a condom on again. This time we went at it for about 10 minutes but I was so tired from our first session - I didn't even come the 2nd time around.

I don't need a lecture on how dumb this was. Again, I'm 27 years old and know better. I have always been so cautious about having condoms on me, using them appropriately, pulling out with them on, etc., which is why I am so pissed at myself for last nights actions. This girl seems really genuine, sweet, and we have plans to hang out again. I'm not worried about her ghosting me and getting "that text" a month from now.

But my question is, how likely do you guys think it is that she could get pregnant? She said she's on birth control (which I know essentially means nothing coming from a woman), and I know pre-ejaculate can happen prior to ejaculation, however, as I mentioned the time I was actually inside her with no condom was very brief and at the very beginning of our escapades. Regardless, a VERY poor decision on my part and will never be happening again with any girl I'm with. Has this ever happened to you guys as well?

Thanks boys. Just a little worried this AM.
Very unwise as you can get an STI/STD this way too. Assuming you urinated after each time, the pull out method is approx. 82% - 87% effective if done perfectly. If she's mid-30's or higher and hadn't had any children yet; she's less likely to get pregnant. If she's younger than you, which I assume she is, chances are higher. Younger females are more fertile than older one's.
 

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And if you did not *** inside that girl, the only thing you need to worry is about stds. Dating apps are full of that man. Must be really really careful. Talking here by experience... Sex in those apps are way easy for women, and most women Ive met there didnt want to use condom. Most actually asked to took it off and fck her with no protection.

Stay safe man!
Not true at all.
 

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Very unwise as you can get an STI/STD this way too. Assuming you urinated after each time, the pull out method is approx. 82% - 87% effective if done perfectly. If she's mid-30's or higher and hadn't had any children yet; she's less likely to get pregnant. If she's younger than you, which I assume she is, chances are higher. Younger females are more fertile than older one's.
We are good - she got her period! But a lesson to learn for next time... not very smart of me.
 

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I feel like Skyn is good, but as I mentioned it had been a WHILE since I have last had sex consistently.
I've had issues in the past maintaining erections using condoms too. From all the thin condoms I've tried, Skyn has worked the best for me. Trojan Ultra Thin and Bareskin has also been good too.
 

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As I have still not yet continued my family tree, I'm just barebacking, and if she gets knocked up, then good, I have soled my reproductive problem. Of course, this means that I have to only have sex with women that I wouldn't feel ashamed about because of ugliness, low-intelligence, single-momminess, etc.
2 Rules for Life (for Men):
1. Be awesome.
2. Spread your seed.

All the cool guys are doing it (Clint Eastwood, Eddie Murphy, Mike Tyson, Elon Musk...)
 

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Not too tired, but losing sensitivity with the condom and just couldn't stay hard. And I'm not sure, could have been longer than 10 minutes I was just making the point I didn't bust until a while later. I didn't really time it lol. But I'm sure duration is something I need to practice. I am getting divorced currently and coming out of a marriage with a pretty much non-existent sex life, so I'm trying to get a few solid plates and some practice.
Stay with the one who likes to give it to you. 3 months of fvcking without games or being denied will get your man back at full masculinity.
 
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