"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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An Odd Ex Girlfriend.

PimpOfTheSouth

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I have a girl that constantly tries to stay in my life. She is an EX of mine that left me in the past because I was a jerk. What I dont understand is why she constantly tries to get a hold of me even when I change my number? She has a boyfriend so I dont understand the need to talk to me. Any Input? She also always asks question like would you ever get back with me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she realizes she mad a big mistake leaving you and her new boyfriend is probably a chump and is not on your calibur. You were probably a big special catch for her and she foolishly let you go and its her loss. My input is to ignore her and cut off contact and move on. She could be a potential c0ckbl0ck3r for future girls so becareful if you chose to keep her around.
 

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well if you changed your number and didnt' inform her, it sounds as if you were trying to completely ignore her anyway. The only other two alternatives are to
a) Cut out the inevitability of it all and date her again.
b) Have a serious sit down with her telling her that the relationship you had is gone, and the one that you have now is either going to be as friends, or regretably as strangers.
Theres no middle ground here, unless shes game for booty call status.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think shes trying to keep me close because shes the one thats afraid im going to find someone else. The other night I got a random text askin "are you telling me the truth when you say you would never get back with me?"
 

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Yeah she still wants you. Pretty obvious.

She'll most likely sabotage anything you have going and she knows about. Women are catty.
 
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