"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An Odd Ex Girlfriend.

PimpOfTheSouth

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I have a girl that constantly tries to stay in my life. She is an EX of mine that left me in the past because I was a jerk. What I dont understand is why she constantly tries to get a hold of me even when I change my number? She has a boyfriend so I dont understand the need to talk to me. Any Input? She also always asks question like would you ever get back with me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she realizes she mad a big mistake leaving you and her new boyfriend is probably a chump and is not on your calibur. You were probably a big special catch for her and she foolishly let you go and its her loss. My input is to ignore her and cut off contact and move on. She could be a potential c0ckbl0ck3r for future girls so becareful if you chose to keep her around.
 

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well if you changed your number and didnt' inform her, it sounds as if you were trying to completely ignore her anyway. The only other two alternatives are to
a) Cut out the inevitability of it all and date her again.
b) Have a serious sit down with her telling her that the relationship you had is gone, and the one that you have now is either going to be as friends, or regretably as strangers.
Theres no middle ground here, unless shes game for booty call status.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PimpOfTheSouth

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I think shes trying to keep me close because shes the one thats afraid im going to find someone else. The other night I got a random text askin "are you telling me the truth when you say you would never get back with me?"
 

combustiont

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Yeah she still wants you. Pretty obvious.

She'll most likely sabotage anything you have going and she knows about. Women are catty.
 
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