"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

An Odd Ex Girlfriend.

P

PimpOfTheSouth

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2009
Messages
170
Reaction score
6
I have a girl that constantly tries to stay in my life. She is an EX of mine that left me in the past because I was a jerk. What I dont understand is why she constantly tries to get a hold of me even when I change my number? She has a boyfriend so I dont understand the need to talk to me. Any Input? She also always asks question like would you ever get back with me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

1

1337

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2009
Messages
153
Reaction score
7
she realizes she mad a big mistake leaving you and her new boyfriend is probably a chump and is not on your calibur. You were probably a big special catch for her and she foolishly let you go and its her loss. My input is to ignore her and cut off contact and move on. She could be a potential c0ckbl0ck3r for future girls so becareful if you chose to keep her around.
 
T

Tonypencil

New Member
Joined
Sep 29, 2009
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
Location
Nova Scotia
well if you changed your number and didnt' inform her, it sounds as if you were trying to completely ignore her anyway. The only other two alternatives are to
a) Cut out the inevitability of it all and date her again.
b) Have a serious sit down with her telling her that the relationship you had is gone, and the one that you have now is either going to be as friends, or regretably as strangers.
Theres no middle ground here, unless shes game for booty call status.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

P

PimpOfTheSouth

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2009
Messages
170
Reaction score
6
I think shes trying to keep me close because shes the one thats afraid im going to find someone else. The other night I got a random text askin "are you telling me the truth when you say you would never get back with me?"
 
C

combustiont

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2008
Messages
46
Reaction score
0
Yeah she still wants you. Pretty obvious.

She'll most likely sabotage anything you have going and she knows about. Women are catty.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top