"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An Odd Ex Girlfriend.

PimpOfTheSouth

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I have a girl that constantly tries to stay in my life. She is an EX of mine that left me in the past because I was a jerk. What I dont understand is why she constantly tries to get a hold of me even when I change my number? She has a boyfriend so I dont understand the need to talk to me. Any Input? She also always asks question like would you ever get back with me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she realizes she mad a big mistake leaving you and her new boyfriend is probably a chump and is not on your calibur. You were probably a big special catch for her and she foolishly let you go and its her loss. My input is to ignore her and cut off contact and move on. She could be a potential c0ckbl0ck3r for future girls so becareful if you chose to keep her around.
 

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well if you changed your number and didnt' inform her, it sounds as if you were trying to completely ignore her anyway. The only other two alternatives are to
a) Cut out the inevitability of it all and date her again.
b) Have a serious sit down with her telling her that the relationship you had is gone, and the one that you have now is either going to be as friends, or regretably as strangers.
Theres no middle ground here, unless shes game for booty call status.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PimpOfTheSouth

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I think shes trying to keep me close because shes the one thats afraid im going to find someone else. The other night I got a random text askin "are you telling me the truth when you say you would never get back with me?"
 

combustiont

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Yeah she still wants you. Pretty obvious.

She'll most likely sabotage anything you have going and she knows about. Women are catty.
 
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