"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An interesting thread about a Uber driver feeling that his job is repellant to chicks in OLD

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I am single and have a pleasant personality. I am listed on Tinder and facebook dating. In my dating profile, I put that i am a full time diamond pro uber driver....i am having the hardest time matching any single women. Is it because women are obsessed with finding a man with financial security?
And most women don't view uber drivers as being financially secure?
Is that it? Maybe there should be a singles section on this website where single drivers can meet other single drivers....maybe that would work since both people would understand since they are doing the same job
my opinion: What, he thinks that being a diamond pro uber driver should melt the panties right off? :lol::rofl:
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In my opinion women evaluate two factors when it comes of a guys job.

1)Dominance

2)Income

A guy driving people around is seen as a driving waiter in terms of dominance and income especially since he has to be a nice guy to get extra tips...women dont like men that are forced to behave nicely wheter they like it or not.

That also explains why women go crazy for police officers, the guy is trained, armed and can bully people around if pissed off plus his salary is not usually bad but most of all is sure no matter that every month.

Dominance is always important while the income grows in terms of importance by the age of the woman and given a high income its enough alone if it can buy dominance too.

Guys should accept the fact that modern women evaluate men not any different than cave women, its all about your DNA and your place in the hierarchy...niceness, humor, culture are all secondary to that.
 

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In my opinion women evaluate two factors when it comes of a guys job.

1)Dominance

2)Income

A guy driving people around is seen as a driving waiter in terms of dominance and income especially since he has to be a nice guy to get extra tips...women dont like men that are forced to behave nicely wheter they like it or not.

That also explains why women go crazy for police officers, the guy is trained, armed and can bully people around if pissed off plus his salary is not usually bad but most of all is sure no matter that every month.

Dominance is always important while the income grows in terms of importance by the age of the woman and given a high income its enough alone if it can buy dominance too.

Guys should accept the fact that modern women evaluate men not any different than cave women, its all about your DNA and your place in the hierarchy...niceness, humor, culture are all secondary to that.
So police officer is the hottest job for pulling ladies?
 

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Okay I've seen this a few times on here: what the hell does OLD stand for?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So police officer is the hottest job for pulling ladies?
Of course not, its the mc donald cashier unless you know someone in the upper management and can get a job as a floor cleaner.

I heard Draghi applied for that but was rejected and had no other choice than to accept that assignment at the european central bank.
 

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Of course not, its the mc donald cashier unless you know someone in the upper management and can get a job as a floor cleaner.

I heard Draghi applied for that but was rejected and had no other choice than to accept that assignment at the european central bank.
Forced to white collar. So waiter who is well dressed and built who makes $75k+ in a super high end restaurant should be able to do "okay"?
 

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Forced to white collar. So waiter who is well dressed and built who makes $75k+ in a super high end restaurant should be able to do "okay"?
Its hard to say, I would say that he is still a guy that take orders from random people and bring them food while being forced to agree with them all the time...subconsciouly a woman doesnt like it even if it comes with good money.

But again Im not a woman so cant really say, unless a woman does a job or studies subjects that make her a pain in the ass, it doesnt make much difference to me.

One thing I know for sure is that they despise weakness more than anything else and if they see weakness in any part of your life, you're done.
 

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Its hard to say, I would say that he is still a guy that take orders from random people and bring them food while being forced to agree with them all the time...subconsciouly a woman doesnt like it even if it comes with good money.

But again Im not a woman so cant really say, unless a woman does a job or studies subjects that make her a pain in the ass, it doesnt make much difference to me.

One thing I know for sure is that they despise weakness more than anything else and if they see weakness in any part of your life, you're done.
So the "wharehouse" guys are doing a lot more fvcking than a high end waiter or chef? I mean warehouse guys take orders too? Most people do except very high level execs and owners. But I hear you on the "weakness".

95% of this country goes to work for someone and does a job, a lot of those folks are fvcking they all aren't in the perfect "alpha" job role.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So the "wharehouse" guys are doing a lot more fvcking than a high end waiter or chef? I mean warehouse guys take orders too? Most people do except very high level execs and owners. But I hear you on the "weakness".

95% of this country goes to work for someone and does a job, a lot of those folks are fvcking they all aren't in the perfect "alpha" job role.
Bro I spoke about dominance for a reason, a police lieutenant takes order too but he takes order from 5 and gives order to 50 including the top waiter that drives his 75k mercedes from work.

Its post nr. 2, thats what I observe but again nowadays everything fights common sense so anything is possibile.
 

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Bro I spoke about dominance for a reason, a police lieutenant takes order too but he takes order from 5 and gives order to 50 including the top waiter that drives his 75k mercedes from work.

Its post nr. 2, thats what I observe but again nowadays everything fights common sense so anything is possibile.
True. So what about police officers vs CEO and Executive management making 1-100Mill each?

I'm just seeing your opinion. You don't think some types of woman will prefer other job titles?
 

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True. So what about police officers vs CEO and Executive management making 1-100Mill each?

I'm just seeing your opinion. You don't think some types of woman will prefer other job titles?
I guess it depends of the age of the two and the economical backround of her family.

If she is in her early 20s coming from a middle class family she will pick the cop while if she is early 30s she will pick the CEO.

But we also have to consider for which purpose, romance? mid terms? marriage?
 

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I don't know what that driver's problem is. There are Uber/Lyft drivers who fucck drunk women after the ride.
 

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He's not just an Uber driver, he's a "full time diamond pro Uber driver". That's romance and excitement right there. I don't know why women aren't excited to meet him, at 10pm, at the Mcdonalds Drive Thru next to the airport.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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These are indeed sh!thole times. I've never seen so scant females available? and the fvckin flaking is just disrespectful, where is our push-back? How are babies being born through all this chasm between the sexes?
 

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Dating without any status at all has got to be pretty difficult unless you are on point in the other areas. I had a virtually zero dating life until I got some situational status in college, and then moreso in career. Everyone should probably try to get some situational status like the leader of some hobby group or something.
OK, so now being a "leader of some hobby group" is supposed to melt the panties away? :rolleyes:
 

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These are indeed sh!thole times. I've never seen so scant females available? and the fvckin flaking is just disrespectful, where is our push-back? How are babies being born through all this chasm between the sexes?
They are waiting for their chance for Chad to impregnate them, and then appeal to a starving normie to be the stepdad. :mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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