"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An interesting thread about a Uber driver feeling that his job is repellant to chicks in OLD

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I am single and have a pleasant personality. I am listed on Tinder and facebook dating. In my dating profile, I put that i am a full time diamond pro uber driver....i am having the hardest time matching any single women. Is it because women are obsessed with finding a man with financial security?
And most women don't view uber drivers as being financially secure?
Is that it? Maybe there should be a singles section on this website where single drivers can meet other single drivers....maybe that would work since both people would understand since they are doing the same job
my opinion: What, he thinks that being a diamond pro uber driver should melt the panties right off? :lol::rofl:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In my opinion women evaluate two factors when it comes of a guys job.

1)Dominance

2)Income

A guy driving people around is seen as a driving waiter in terms of dominance and income especially since he has to be a nice guy to get extra tips...women dont like men that are forced to behave nicely wheter they like it or not.

That also explains why women go crazy for police officers, the guy is trained, armed and can bully people around if pissed off plus his salary is not usually bad but most of all is sure no matter that every month.

Dominance is always important while the income grows in terms of importance by the age of the woman and given a high income its enough alone if it can buy dominance too.

Guys should accept the fact that modern women evaluate men not any different than cave women, its all about your DNA and your place in the hierarchy...niceness, humor, culture are all secondary to that.
 

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In my opinion women evaluate two factors when it comes of a guys job.

1)Dominance

2)Income

A guy driving people around is seen as a driving waiter in terms of dominance and income especially since he has to be a nice guy to get extra tips...women dont like men that are forced to behave nicely wheter they like it or not.

That also explains why women go crazy for police officers, the guy is trained, armed and can bully people around if pissed off plus his salary is not usually bad but most of all is sure no matter that every month.

Dominance is always important while the income grows in terms of importance by the age of the woman and given a high income its enough alone if it can buy dominance too.

Guys should accept the fact that modern women evaluate men not any different than cave women, its all about your DNA and your place in the hierarchy...niceness, humor, culture are all secondary to that.
So police officer is the hottest job for pulling ladies?
 

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Okay I've seen this a few times on here: what the hell does OLD stand for?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So police officer is the hottest job for pulling ladies?
Of course not, its the mc donald cashier unless you know someone in the upper management and can get a job as a floor cleaner.

I heard Draghi applied for that but was rejected and had no other choice than to accept that assignment at the european central bank.
 

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Of course not, its the mc donald cashier unless you know someone in the upper management and can get a job as a floor cleaner.

I heard Draghi applied for that but was rejected and had no other choice than to accept that assignment at the european central bank.
Forced to white collar. So waiter who is well dressed and built who makes $75k+ in a super high end restaurant should be able to do "okay"?
 

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Forced to white collar. So waiter who is well dressed and built who makes $75k+ in a super high end restaurant should be able to do "okay"?
Its hard to say, I would say that he is still a guy that take orders from random people and bring them food while being forced to agree with them all the time...subconsciouly a woman doesnt like it even if it comes with good money.

But again Im not a woman so cant really say, unless a woman does a job or studies subjects that make her a pain in the ass, it doesnt make much difference to me.

One thing I know for sure is that they despise weakness more than anything else and if they see weakness in any part of your life, you're done.
 

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Its hard to say, I would say that he is still a guy that take orders from random people and bring them food while being forced to agree with them all the time...subconsciouly a woman doesnt like it even if it comes with good money.

But again Im not a woman so cant really say, unless a woman does a job or studies subjects that make her a pain in the ass, it doesnt make much difference to me.

One thing I know for sure is that they despise weakness more than anything else and if they see weakness in any part of your life, you're done.
So the "wharehouse" guys are doing a lot more fvcking than a high end waiter or chef? I mean warehouse guys take orders too? Most people do except very high level execs and owners. But I hear you on the "weakness".

95% of this country goes to work for someone and does a job, a lot of those folks are fvcking they all aren't in the perfect "alpha" job role.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So the "wharehouse" guys are doing a lot more fvcking than a high end waiter or chef? I mean warehouse guys take orders too? Most people do except very high level execs and owners. But I hear you on the "weakness".

95% of this country goes to work for someone and does a job, a lot of those folks are fvcking they all aren't in the perfect "alpha" job role.
Bro I spoke about dominance for a reason, a police lieutenant takes order too but he takes order from 5 and gives order to 50 including the top waiter that drives his 75k mercedes from work.

Its post nr. 2, thats what I observe but again nowadays everything fights common sense so anything is possibile.
 

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Bro I spoke about dominance for a reason, a police lieutenant takes order too but he takes order from 5 and gives order to 50 including the top waiter that drives his 75k mercedes from work.

Its post nr. 2, thats what I observe but again nowadays everything fights common sense so anything is possibile.
True. So what about police officers vs CEO and Executive management making 1-100Mill each?

I'm just seeing your opinion. You don't think some types of woman will prefer other job titles?
 

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True. So what about police officers vs CEO and Executive management making 1-100Mill each?

I'm just seeing your opinion. You don't think some types of woman will prefer other job titles?
I guess it depends of the age of the two and the economical backround of her family.

If she is in her early 20s coming from a middle class family she will pick the cop while if she is early 30s she will pick the CEO.

But we also have to consider for which purpose, romance? mid terms? marriage?
 

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I don't know what that driver's problem is. There are Uber/Lyft drivers who fucck drunk women after the ride.
 

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He's not just an Uber driver, he's a "full time diamond pro Uber driver". That's romance and excitement right there. I don't know why women aren't excited to meet him, at 10pm, at the Mcdonalds Drive Thru next to the airport.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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These are indeed sh!thole times. I've never seen so scant females available? and the fvckin flaking is just disrespectful, where is our push-back? How are babies being born through all this chasm between the sexes?
 

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Dating without any status at all has got to be pretty difficult unless you are on point in the other areas. I had a virtually zero dating life until I got some situational status in college, and then moreso in career. Everyone should probably try to get some situational status like the leader of some hobby group or something.
OK, so now being a "leader of some hobby group" is supposed to melt the panties away? :rolleyes:
 

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These are indeed sh!thole times. I've never seen so scant females available? and the fvckin flaking is just disrespectful, where is our push-back? How are babies being born through all this chasm between the sexes?
They are waiting for their chance for Chad to impregnate them, and then appeal to a starving normie to be the stepdad. :mad:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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