penkitten
Master Don Juan
Hey oldtimers, was mystery the one who wore the pirate shirt with puffy sleeves?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
An Interesting Take on the "Do Looks Matter?" Debate
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Maximus Rex
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No it wasn't. Guys one this forum will say a lot of things about PUA gurus, however you will never here anybody on here they pulls chicks off their looks. If they could pull chicks just off of their personality alone, then there would have never been The Mystery Method, Real Social Dynamics, or Bang.
Yes, you did.
Since when did six paragraphs and a sentence become War and Peace? I have long posts in my approach journal and this my friend isn't a "long," post by any means. Unless of course you have ADHD.
In that rebuttual, you didn't say ****.
The DJ Bible is cool, but comparing it to in field instruction from dudes who do this sh*t for a living is a little absurd. It's analogous to saying that you get a 175 on the LSAT simply going to the library and studying an LSAT prep book as opposed to taking a course on how to take the LSAT from Kaplan, Princeton Review, or Blueprint.
How do scam artists stay in business of over ten years?
1) Who cares?
2) I didn't ask.
3) Unless you started school on the 4th, you still should be on your winter break.
4) Why did you go off topic.
When did I say or imply anything about you not replying to my posts in a timely manner?
Yet another futile attempt at deflection.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
I swear he used to wear a puffy pirate shirt.
SeymourCake
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I take it you did not read the posts where I stated that I had errands to run or that I have a busy week. What makes you think someone like you who has his head stuck up his ass would even attempt to rebuttal any counter argument claim I give?
By the way, breaking down each sentence bits by bits only proves how buttmad you are. I'm still not apologizing for insulting your idols.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maximus Rex
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I didn't ask, nor did I care. That was your lame ass attempt at ducking the points I brought up.
I didn't and you just realize that there's no logical way you counter any point that I brought, which explains why you brought up sh*t that wasn't even germane to the conversation.
It only goes to prove your idiocy.
Again, going completely and totally off topic with some sh*t that wasn't even in the initial conversation. When did I ever ask for an apology?
PeasantPlayer
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Do looks matter will always be a grey area. I think people should except that as fact and we can hash out or talk about why it is
Atom Smasher
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The ones with good personality are almost always fat or not good looking at all. The problem we face today is that there is no longer a sweet spot. At this stage in life I would settle for a downgrade in looks (within reason) for an excellent personality but the sweet spot has disappeared. My formula:
"Quality of character is inversely proportional to good looks."
"Quality of character is inversely proportional to good looks."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I did a search and didn't find him in a puffy shirt. You're not thinking of Seinfeld, are you? I know they did an episode on that.
SeymourCake
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You are so buttmad. lmfao
I take it you never went to college, or at least a university.
What's wrong?
...Afraid I might steal your girl?
penkitten
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penkitten
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penkitten
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
There you go... that last one qualifies as a puffy pirate shirt. Mystery certainly got his 15 minutes of fame.
This community is S.A.D. if you keep on worshiping these P.U.A. guru. They're all scammers trying to get your money. FYI, It's called talent not games anybody could out duel these jokes with just personality. Take for example, I let you carry a ***** load of lines with you for you to use at your disposal. I can beat you with just being myself.
zekko
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A couple things come to mind from watching the video:
1) When Brandon says he gets approached a couple times every time he "goes out", does that mean every time he leaves the house or every time he goes out to a club? Because I would say the former would be pretty impressive, while the latter would not, necessarily.
2) Brandon considers "proximity" or "eye contact" an approach by a female. I would say no, that is not an approach. When he talks about the girl touching his arm repeatedly, yeah I would consider that an approach.
3) This Todd dude is not tall and does not have the look Brandon has. It doesn't look like Todd works out much, but even if he did he is never going to have the looks the other guy does.
1) When Brandon says he gets approached a couple times every time he "goes out", does that mean every time he leaves the house or every time he goes out to a club? Because I would say the former would be pretty impressive, while the latter would not, necessarily.
2) Brandon considers "proximity" or "eye contact" an approach by a female. I would say no, that is not an approach. When he talks about the girl touching his arm repeatedly, yeah I would consider that an approach.
3) This Todd dude is not tall and does not have the look Brandon has. It doesn't look like Todd works out much, but even if he did he is never going to have the looks the other guy does.
Huffman
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Let's not get hung up on Mystery here; I think he looks like a douche but so what. The other 3 guys (Tyler, etc etc) are all dressed top notch in those photos and have a good look on their faces. That's already WAY more attractive than the average guy.
So yeah, they aren't models but they've got enough looks for a woman to not turn them down immediately, or to give them a 2nd chance.
I'm noticing the same thing lately, my face has improved a bit in the last year and now girls tend to give me 2nd dates even if I screwed up.
So yeah, they aren't models but they've got enough looks for a woman to not turn them down immediately, or to give them a 2nd chance.
I'm noticing the same thing lately, my face has improved a bit in the last year and now girls tend to give me 2nd dates even if I screwed up.
PeasantPlayer
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I go to this Starbucks in my neighborhood every so often to read books and just chill and work on some stuff. Love seeing all the different ladies walking in and working there. There is this really cute girl with a nice personality. She's not super hot, she just cute like a 5-6, but has a award winning personality so far. I heard she has a boyfriend so I don't try and game her. If we naturally get in a short convo we will talk, but I am being respectful, so many other ladies in that joint there is no need to go for the one who is taken
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.