comic_relief
Master Don Juan
PA
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Hey CrazyKid,
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Like I said before, most people around here just put down "Canada" as thier location, leaving me clueless as to where they are. I might just delete those names and make it so only people who post where they are in Canada are added.
Ever onward
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 11, 2004
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Nebraska
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You'll find me in "The Matrix" or in the 'Twilight Zone" - trying to help others escape!!!
Plex
Don Juan
I'm fron Oregon too, Portland specifically
friend of syemour.... he referred me
friend of syemour.... he referred me
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
blackbirdbeatle
Senior Don Juan
Alberta Canada.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Crazykid wrote:
Yeah, if they can't even be more specific than "Canada" then f*ck them and delete their names from the list.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Northern Virginia.
Mr. Mystery
Mr. Mystery
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
New York
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
You can add me in alone in Latvia.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
California
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.