comic_relief
Master Don Juan
PA
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Hey CrazyKid,
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Like I said before, most people around here just put down "Canada" as thier location, leaving me clueless as to where they are. I might just delete those names and make it so only people who post where they are in Canada are added.
Ever onward
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 11, 2004
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- 968
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Nebraska
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You'll find me in "The Matrix" or in the 'Twilight Zone" - trying to help others escape!!!
Plex
Don Juan
I'm fron Oregon too, Portland specifically
friend of syemour.... he referred me
friend of syemour.... he referred me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blackbirdbeatle
Senior Don Juan
Alberta Canada.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Crazykid wrote:
Yeah, if they can't even be more specific than "Canada" then f*ck them and delete their names from the list.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Northern Virginia.
Mr. Mystery
Mr. Mystery
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
New York
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
You can add me in alone in Latvia.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
California
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.