comic_relief
Master Don Juan
PA
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Hey CrazyKid,
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Like I said before, most people around here just put down "Canada" as thier location, leaving me clueless as to where they are. I might just delete those names and make it so only people who post where they are in Canada are added.
Ever onward
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 11, 2004
- Messages
- 968
- Reaction score
- 3
Nebraska
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You'll find me in "The Matrix" or in the 'Twilight Zone" - trying to help others escape!!!
Plex
Don Juan
I'm fron Oregon too, Portland specifically
friend of syemour.... he referred me
friend of syemour.... he referred me
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
blackbirdbeatle
Senior Don Juan
Alberta Canada.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Crazykid wrote:
Yeah, if they can't even be more specific than "Canada" then f*ck them and delete their names from the list.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Northern Virginia.
Mr. Mystery
Mr. Mystery
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
New York
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
You can add me in alone in Latvia.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
California
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.