comic_relief
Master Don Juan
PA
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Hey CrazyKid,
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Canada is a big country dude, bigger than the US, so best to separate it by province or even better by major city. Start with Montreal, Toronto, Ottawa, Vancouver, etc.
I'm from Montreal.
Cheers,
Cesare Cardinali
Like I said before, most people around here just put down "Canada" as thier location, leaving me clueless as to where they are. I might just delete those names and make it so only people who post where they are in Canada are added.
Ever onward
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 11, 2004
- Messages
- 968
- Reaction score
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Nebraska
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You'll find me in "The Matrix" or in the 'Twilight Zone" - trying to help others escape!!!
Plex
Don Juan
I'm fron Oregon too, Portland specifically
friend of syemour.... he referred me
friend of syemour.... he referred me
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
blackbirdbeatle
Senior Don Juan
Alberta Canada.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Crazykid wrote:
Yeah, if they can't even be more specific than "Canada" then f*ck them and delete their names from the list.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Northern Virginia.
Mr. Mystery
Mr. Mystery
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
New York
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
You can add me in alone in Latvia.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
BTW, it's a country in Europe.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
California
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.