DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
philippines.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
HanSolo
New Member
I'm new here, but...
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
<----Tennessee
Capi Crimini
Banned
DarkfalconIV meaning um.....me. The SN was changed and now I live in Wisconsin. Though you can leave DarkfalconIv up. I visit a lot.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
you spelled Philippines wrong. 
smileyz is with us too.
smileyz is with us too.
Dee-Zy - If I was to split it up, there would be a LOT of people in thier own little area, plus a lot of people just say "Canada" in thier profiles, so I don't know which part they are in.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
hey, crazykid. thanks, you just made things a whole lot easier for everyone here. i really appreciate it.
Ak89
Don Juan
U forgot me
New York boy!!!
New York boy!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
<-- West Canada EH?!
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
<-------- California
You just can't leave me out like that.
You just can't leave me out like that.
firestarter
Don Juan
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- Nov 15, 2003
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arre I'm from India
Frankie Poullain
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 30, 2004
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Re: ''the Canada problem''
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.