DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
philippines.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HanSolo
New Member
I'm new here, but...
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
<----Tennessee
Capi Crimini
Banned
DarkfalconIV meaning um.....me. The SN was changed and now I live in Wisconsin. Though you can leave DarkfalconIv up. I visit a lot.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
you spelled Philippines wrong. 
smileyz is with us too.
smileyz is with us too.
Dee-Zy - If I was to split it up, there would be a LOT of people in thier own little area, plus a lot of people just say "Canada" in thier profiles, so I don't know which part they are in.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
hey, crazykid. thanks, you just made things a whole lot easier for everyone here. i really appreciate it.
Ak89
Don Juan
U forgot me
New York boy!!!
New York boy!!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
<-- West Canada EH?!
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
<-------- California
You just can't leave me out like that.
You just can't leave me out like that.
firestarter
Don Juan
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arre I'm from India
Frankie Poullain
Don Juan
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- Mar 30, 2004
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Re: ''the Canada problem''
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.