DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
philippines.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HanSolo
New Member
I'm new here, but...
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
<----Tennessee
Capi Crimini
Banned
DarkfalconIV meaning um.....me. The SN was changed and now I live in Wisconsin. Though you can leave DarkfalconIv up. I visit a lot.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
you spelled Philippines wrong. 
smileyz is with us too.
smileyz is with us too.
Dee-Zy - If I was to split it up, there would be a LOT of people in thier own little area, plus a lot of people just say "Canada" in thier profiles, so I don't know which part they are in.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
hey, crazykid. thanks, you just made things a whole lot easier for everyone here. i really appreciate it.
Ak89
Don Juan
U forgot me
New York boy!!!
New York boy!!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
<-- West Canada EH?!
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
<-------- California
You just can't leave me out like that.
You just can't leave me out like that.
firestarter
Don Juan
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arre I'm from India
Frankie Poullain
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 30, 2004
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Re: ''the Canada problem''
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.