DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
philippines.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
along with evol_andre
we're lonely down here.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
HanSolo
New Member
I'm new here, but...
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
Add me too. I'm looking for some guys to go out with for/to give assistance in developing skills. I have too many boring wussy AFC friends who won't work with me or give me BS advise. Me - "Let's go play some pool, shuffleboard, or walk around to check out the place and who's come in lately - in other words do something interesting." Them - "Nah, I just want to sit here at the bar, drink my beer, and talk about boring sh*t with you." Me - [yawn] "Guess I won't have much luck increasing my skills tonight then. Thanks to you, c*cksucker..." OR Me - "Dude, check out that chick over there. I need you to distract the friends and remove some of her shielding so I get through and communicate with her." Them - "Go for it, dude..." Me - "Aren't you coming?" Them - "Nah.... dude..." Me - "C*cksucker..." Then I end up walking up to packs of girls all by myself, with no back up. If I was more skilled I might be okay, but starting out I could use a buddy who has a clue (or who at least wants to get one)...
I could use a friend to work with here. I'm a lone wolf here - it would VERY helpful to have a buddy who likes girls and is willing to experiment with different tactics and develop skills.
I'm in New Jersey - close to Cherry Hill and Philadelphia, PA.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
<----Tennessee
Capi Crimini
Banned
DarkfalconIV meaning um.....me. The SN was changed and now I live in Wisconsin. Though you can leave DarkfalconIv up. I visit a lot.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
you spelled Philippines wrong. 
smileyz is with us too.
smileyz is with us too.
Dee-Zy - If I was to split it up, there would be a LOT of people in thier own little area, plus a lot of people just say "Canada" in thier profiles, so I don't know which part they are in.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
DJ - Updated and added. I need to stop trying to update this when tired.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
hey, crazykid. thanks, you just made things a whole lot easier for everyone here. i really appreciate it.
Ak89
Don Juan
U forgot me
New York boy!!!
New York boy!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
<-- West Canada EH?!
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
<-------- California
You just can't leave me out like that.
You just can't leave me out like that.
firestarter
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2003
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- 32
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arre I'm from India
Frankie Poullain
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 30, 2004
- Messages
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Re: ''the Canada problem''
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
How about you seperate it into time zones for different parts of Canada?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.