"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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an age old questions for DJ's to explain

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When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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edit: I've obviously had a women do this to me recently but the funny part is, a week before she was drinking alcohol (which I forgot she was and she forgot about as well) but she said she knew she was prego for over a month but didn't tell me cuz she was waiting for the right time.

So for me, this women is even more useless and not even worth my time because she was willing to drink alcohol when she knew she was pregnant (aka I could forgive I psycho chick lying saying she is prego when she isn't but I won't ever take back a chick who would drink when she knows she's pregnant - any way you look at it, its a catch 22 and she's not coming out ahead.)

Women are messed and I'm lovin it, I can see right through them, its so much easier to play the game when you have the knowledge, that being said, I've still got my weaknesses, and can't control my brain when it comes to them but I''ve learned how to keep it in check and minimize those problems)
 

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MacAvoy said:
When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
The odd thing is, women trying this trick multiple times. Did revealing your pregnancy work with any of the three fathers of your last three kids? Definition of insanity. But people of either gender do crazy things at the last minute when they're about to get the shaft at the end of a relationship.
 

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I might be pregnant= Girl wants to test your interest level AKA Sh1t test.
 

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You’d better hope it is merely a sh!t test. If she really is pregnant and you are the father and you don’t want to be in your child’s life; then if she’s smart enough to call a lawyer you have two choices:

1) Pay through the nose for 18 years 9 months.
2) Pay out the azz for 18 years 9 months.

Of course the correct choice is number 3: Be a decent human being and own up to your responsibilities as a father.

It takes a true DJ to do choose number 3.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Before you go jumping into fatherhood, I suggest that you get a paternity test done.

Think about it: she's crazy enough to drink while she's pregnant. She's probably equally as crazy to screw around with a whole slew of different guys.

Oh, and MacAvoy, you really aren't picking the right ones. Sounds like your slumming it up.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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MacAvoy said:
When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
How many "good guys" do you know who can walk away from a living part of himself?
 
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