"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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an age old questions for DJ's to explain

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When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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edit: I've obviously had a women do this to me recently but the funny part is, a week before she was drinking alcohol (which I forgot she was and she forgot about as well) but she said she knew she was prego for over a month but didn't tell me cuz she was waiting for the right time.

So for me, this women is even more useless and not even worth my time because she was willing to drink alcohol when she knew she was pregnant (aka I could forgive I psycho chick lying saying she is prego when she isn't but I won't ever take back a chick who would drink when she knows she's pregnant - any way you look at it, its a catch 22 and she's not coming out ahead.)

Women are messed and I'm lovin it, I can see right through them, its so much easier to play the game when you have the knowledge, that being said, I've still got my weaknesses, and can't control my brain when it comes to them but I''ve learned how to keep it in check and minimize those problems)
 

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MacAvoy said:
When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
The odd thing is, women trying this trick multiple times. Did revealing your pregnancy work with any of the three fathers of your last three kids? Definition of insanity. But people of either gender do crazy things at the last minute when they're about to get the shaft at the end of a relationship.
 

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I might be pregnant= Girl wants to test your interest level AKA Sh1t test.
 

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You’d better hope it is merely a sh!t test. If she really is pregnant and you are the father and you don’t want to be in your child’s life; then if she’s smart enough to call a lawyer you have two choices:

1) Pay through the nose for 18 years 9 months.
2) Pay out the azz for 18 years 9 months.

Of course the correct choice is number 3: Be a decent human being and own up to your responsibilities as a father.

It takes a true DJ to do choose number 3.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Before you go jumping into fatherhood, I suggest that you get a paternity test done.

Think about it: she's crazy enough to drink while she's pregnant. She's probably equally as crazy to screw around with a whole slew of different guys.

Oh, and MacAvoy, you really aren't picking the right ones. Sounds like your slumming it up.
 

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MacAvoy said:
When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
How many "good guys" do you know who can walk away from a living part of himself?
 
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