MacAvoy
Banned
When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The odd thing is, women trying this trick multiple times. Did revealing your pregnancy work with any of the three fathers of your last three kids? Definition of insanity. But people of either gender do crazy things at the last minute when they're about to get the shaft at the end of a relationship.MacAvoy said:When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How many "good guys" do you know who can walk away from a living part of himself?MacAvoy said:When a man leaves a women, why does she think that if she says "I'm pregnant" does she think that will make the man stay and give her another chance?