"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
am i ugly?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ace of Flames
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I didn't look at the picture.
Yes. If you think you are, you will be. Don't worry about looks, and instead develop a game so strong that girls won't care what you look like, only how you pleasure them soooooo good. No sense in complaining about something you can't really change.
Yes. If you think you are, you will be. Don't worry about looks, and instead develop a game so strong that girls won't care what you look like, only how you pleasure them soooooo good. No sense in complaining about something you can't really change.
You look pretty cool, I would actually say. I thought it was a real ugly guy asking this question. But no, you're not ugly at all.
However, you may have low self-esteem issues (in asking this question in this particular way, when you could have asked--"how do I look to you?")
However, you may have low self-esteem issues (in asking this question in this particular way, when you could have asked--"how do I look to you?")
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
gongxia649
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post it in hotornot.com
DJwanna said:i used to be real confident ok with the chicks then some girls just totally went off on me and now i feel like ****
I definatly been there, and i bet many members have been too. I'd love to hear your story bro.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Flabbergasped?
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To be honest...
No, you're fine.
No, you're fine.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
You're not ugly... But to be honest, I wouldn't say you're incredibly good looking. But you'll do fine with chicks... I don't think you'll scare them away hehe
DJwanna said:
You look like my younger brother.
He is going out with a tall slim sexy blonde haired girl.
For over 2 years now, she is hot.
had 2 three-somes and a long line of girls after him.
But saying that he his one ****y confident mother!
Women love green/blue eyes, i should know i have them too.
Make sure you look into girls eyes, this is one of your finer features and a killer arsenal if i dont mind saying so.
You are a good looking guys, but you have very fresh-faced boyish looks. Some women will go for that and others won't. It's the same for everyone, you just have to find the women who find your look attractive.
The only real problem I see is that you do not portray much of a masculine presence, but confidence is more than half of the solution to that.
The only real problem I see is that you do not portray much of a masculine presence, but confidence is more than half of the solution to that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
No you're not. Once your skin clears up and your face starts to mature you'll have to start beating chicks away with a stick. The only suggestions I can give to you are: brush your teeth to get them sparkling, and possible use more gel/wax in your hair.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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