“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ace of Flames

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I didn't look at the picture.


Yes. If you think you are, you will be. Don't worry about looks, and instead develop a game so strong that girls won't care what you look like, only how you pleasure them soooooo good. No sense in complaining about something you can't really change.
 

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. . .You are relativly good looking. . . Dude, your self-esteem is below the pits. Read the uplifting material in the dj bible and that new redone dj bible going around.
 

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You look pretty cool, I would actually say. I thought it was a real ugly guy asking this question. But no, you're not ugly at all.

However, you may have low self-esteem issues (in asking this question in this particular way, when you could have asked--"how do I look to you?")
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i used to be real confident ok with the chicks then some girls just totally went off on me and now i feel like **** :(
 

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Hang in there and hold your head high. I'm trying to do the same because I'm sinking low as no woman seems to show interest in me.
 

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DJwanna said:
i used to be real confident ok with the chicks then some girls just totally went off on me and now i feel like **** :(

I definatly been there, and i bet many members have been too. I'd love to hear your story bro.
 

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dont base ur game on ur looks. it IS important but theres not much u can do about it except to take care of ur skin and get a good haircut...work wit wut u got man
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man, I think you know yourself that you look good but want a confidence booster. Fine, you ARE good looking! :up:
However, as you probably know, that means nothing if your self esteem is low and you reek of desperation.
 

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To be honest...

No, you're fine.
 

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You're not ugly... But to be honest, I wouldn't say you're incredibly good looking. But you'll do fine with chicks... I don't think you'll scare them away hehe
 

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DJwanna said:

You look like my younger brother.
He is going out with a tall slim sexy blonde haired girl.
For over 2 years now, she is hot.

had 2 three-somes and a long line of girls after him.

But saying that he his one ****y confident mother!

Women love green/blue eyes, i should know i have them too.

Make sure you look into girls eyes, this is one of your finer features and a killer arsenal if i dont mind saying so.
 

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You are a good looking guys, but you have very fresh-faced boyish looks. Some women will go for that and others won't. It's the same for everyone, you just have to find the women who find your look attractive.

The only real problem I see is that you do not portray much of a masculine presence, but confidence is more than half of the solution to that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're very good looking. Get over that insecurity - It's bollocks.
 

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The Truth said:
You are a good looking guys, but you have very fresh-faced boyish looks. Some women will go for that and others won't. It's the same for everyone, you just have to find the women who find your look attractive.

The only real problem I see is that you do not portray much of a masculine presence, but confidence is more than half of the solution to that.
and whats the other half to it?
 

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No you're not. Once your skin clears up and your face starts to mature you'll have to start beating chicks away with a stick. The only suggestions I can give to you are: brush your teeth to get them sparkling, and possible use more gel/wax in your hair.
 

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not ugly. No model either though. I wouldntworry about it. We all cant be as good looking as me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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