I mean I told her to her face that when things calm down for her we should catch up and not over a random phone call. She seemed interested.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Am I getting mixed signals or reading too much into it?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
marmel75
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Of course she did. For the same reason women without any interest will give you their number and then ignore you once you try and contact them.
They've learned its easier to just go along with whatever you say in person and then do what they actually want once you arent at a later date.
Pay attention to actions, not words. Words frequently lie. Actions NEVER lie.
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mrgoodstuff
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Trying to raise interest of uninterested women fvcks you up with ALL women. Because that is the type of attention your recieving.... Low interest to rejection. If she's not worried about you why are you worried about her?
marmel75
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And? That basically means "If i have no other options them i guess ill go." Not where you want to be with a woman. Stop wasting your time.
Say it out loud:
"I will not waste time on uninterested women."
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mrgoodstuff
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Tell her that's okay
RangerMIke
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You are spending way too much time thinking about a chick you haven't even fvcked yet. However.... if you are just trying to learn....
Chicks with BFs and husbands, do this all the time. They are always looking for the next best thing. She thought at some point you might be, but you did something that indicated that the guy she has is better then you... so she is backing off. Chicks in relationships that think they can do better will ALWAYS flirt with other dudes.... they can not help themselves...it's the nature of chicks.
My advice to you would be to tell her to reach out if and when she is single.... then forget about her.
Chicks with BFs and husbands, do this all the time. They are always looking for the next best thing. She thought at some point you might be, but you did something that indicated that the guy she has is better then you... so she is backing off. Chicks in relationships that think they can do better will ALWAYS flirt with other dudes.... they can not help themselves...it's the nature of chicks.
My advice to you would be to tell her to reach out if and when she is single.... then forget about her.
I did forget about her for six months lol...
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mrgoodstuff
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Along with the theme of ss, "have you been fvcking her?".
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Just be careful...she may be viewing you as her go to emotional tampon. If the conversation ever goes to how her boyfriend is being such an jerk etc. or other emotional type conversation she is looking to you for emotional support and not as a potential lover. Or if she won't make a commitment to actually meeting then she probably isn't very interested. Just move on.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
We've met up a couple times before I went no contact. One time was for almost two hrs.
Atom Smasher
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This.
An interested woman will always make it easy for you. She basically paves the way and all you need to do is roll down the road. If she makes it hard, eject.
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Gotcha. What are the conversations about? Is it a ***** session about her life or does she show genuine interest in you?
mrgoodstuff
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Don't ho Chase. Very simple concept that keeps man from wasting his time .
She was asking about me but one of the times we got together was when she dropped that she lived with her bf. But it sounded like she didn't really want to talk about him and immediately asked about me.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.