Am I getting mixed signals or reading too much into it?

[ikonik]

Thats your answer. No interest. Work on finding women who are interested and stop wasting time to trying to raise the interest pf uninterested women. Its a futile effort that amounts to an enormous waste of time with little to no results.

Guys this isn't hard. If the women isnt making it easy for you to keep progressing then she isn't as interested as she needs to be.

I mean I told her to her face that when things calm down for her we should catch up and not over a random phone call. She seemed interested.

 

[marmel75]

I mean I told her to her face that when things calm down for her we should catch up and not over a random phone call. She seemed interested.

Of course she did. For the same reason women without any interest will give you their number and then ignore you once you try and contact them.

They've learned its easier to just go along with whatever you say in person and then do what they actually want once you arent at a later date.

Pay attention to actions, not words. Words frequently lie. Actions NEVER lie.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Thats your answer. No interest. Work on finding women who are interested and stop wasting time to trying to raise the interest pf uninterested women. Its a futile effort that amounts to an enormous waste of time with little to no results.

Guys this isn't hard. If the women isnt making it easy for you to keep progressing then she isn't as interested as she needs to be.

Trying to raise interest of uninterested women fvcks you up with ALL women. Because that is the type of attention your recieving.... Low interest to rejection. If she's not worried about you why are you worried about her?

 

[ikonik]

Well she finally responded saying 'let me check my calendar'.

 

[marmel75]

Well she finally responded saying 'let me check my calendar'.

And? That basically means "If i have no other options them i guess ill go." Not where you want to be with a woman. Stop wasting your time.

Say it out loud:

"I will not waste time on uninterested women."

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well she finally responded saying 'let me check my calendar'.

Tell her that's okay

 

[RangerMIke]

You are spending way too much time thinking about a chick you haven't even fvcked yet. However.... if you are just trying to learn....

Chicks with BFs and husbands, do this all the time. They are always looking for the next best thing. She thought at some point you might be, but you did something that indicated that the guy she has is better then you... so she is backing off. Chicks in relationships that think they can do better will ALWAYS flirt with other dudes.... they can not help themselves...it's the nature of chicks.

My advice to you would be to tell her to reach out if and when she is single.... then forget about her.

 

[ikonik]

You are spending way too much time thinking about a chick you haven't even fvcked yet. However.... if you are just trying to learn....

Chicks with BFs and husbands, do this all the time. They are always looking for the next best thing. She thought at some point you might be, but you did something that indicated that the guy she has is better then you... so she is backing off. Chicks in relationships that think they can do better will ALWAYS flirt with other dudes.... they can not help themselves...it's the nature of chicks.

My advice to you would be to tell her to reach out if and when she is single.... then forget about her.

I did forget about her for six months lol...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I did forget about her for six months lol...

Along with the theme of ss, "have you been fvcking her?".

 

[Jack Burton]

Just be careful...she may be viewing you as her go to emotional tampon. If the conversation ever goes to how her boyfriend is being such an jerk etc. or other emotional type conversation she is looking to you for emotional support and not as a potential lover. Or if she won't make a commitment to actually meeting then she probably isn't very interested. Just move on.

 

[ikonik]

Just be careful...she may be viewing you as her go to emotional tampon. If the conversation ever goes to how her boyfriend is being such an jerk etc. or other emotional type conversation she is looking to you for emotional support and not as a potential lover. Or if she won't make a commitment to actually meeting then she probably isn't very interested. Just move on.

We've met up a couple times before I went no contact. One time was for almost two hrs.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Thats your answer. No interest. Work on finding women who are interested and stop wasting time to trying to raise the interest pf uninterested women. Its a futile effort that amounts to an enormous waste of time with little to no results.

Guys this isn't hard. If the women isnt making it easy for you to keep progressing then she isn't as interested as she needs to be.

This.

An interested woman will always make it easy for you. She basically paves the way and all you need to do is roll down the road. If she makes it hard, eject.

 

[Jack Burton]

We've met up a couple times before I went no contact. One time was for almost two hrs.

Gotcha. What are the conversations about? Is it a ***** session about her life or does she show genuine interest in you?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This.

An interested woman will always make it easy for you. She basically paves the way and all you need to do is roll down the road. If she makes it hard, eject.

Don't ho Chase. Very simple concept that keeps man from wasting his time .

 

[ikonik]

Gotcha. What are the conversations about? Is it a ***** session about her life or does she show genuine interest in you?

She was asking about me but one of the times we got together was when she dropped that she lived with her bf. But it sounded like she didn't really want to talk about him and immediately asked about me.