“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Duo

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I'm 5'11" and 230 lbs, and I don't consider myself fat. (BMI says I'm obese, but it LIES!)

So in other words, no. You're not fat. You're just not that muscular.
 

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you are whats called skinny fat.

skinny dude with high bf %.

Start lifting.
 

Warboss Alex

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Originally posted by hungry_american
How long would it take with dedication to look some what toned I look fat gahh
Seven years, two months, three weeks, four days, ten hours, eleven minutes and fifty-one seconds precisely, provided of course that you were born under the star sign of either Leo or Taurus, haven't got two left feet, are not gay, own a blue mini cooper, listen to Robert Palmer and practice occult rituals involving black candles, brimstone pepsi and dessicated parrot, at the dead of night every second Tuesday of the month, if and only if you isolate quadrant 234234 of the bicep by raising your left eyebrow 10% of your height in centimetres while doing concentration curls, whilst whistling Old Suzanna and wearing a pink tutu with "SPANK ME HARD" printed on the back.
 
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I agree with Warboss, although I should point out that the candle don't have to be black necessarily, I would suggest navy equally effective, provided it's girth remains inversely proportionate to it's height x pi.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Duo
I'm 5'11" and 230 lbs, and I don't consider myself fat. (BMI says I'm obese, but it LIES!)

So in other words, no. You're not fat. You're just not that muscular.
BMI isn't perfect but unless you are a bodybuilder with a insanely low bodyfat% a BMI of 30+ may not be accurate but it does bring up concern.
 

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At 18, if you're 138 and 5'10" that's generally considered scrawny - not fat. The fact that you have a belly indicates a very unhealthy diet - the which is what you'll need to change (along with exercise) in order to get "normal". There's a wealth of information on here which can help you out if you'll put in the time and effort required.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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