"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I doing anything wrong?

Fosoh

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I'm a 20 year old guy and in a relationship with a girl that comes from a wealthy family. I've been dating her for 7 months. I enjoy being able to have great times with them and the assets they have. But she doesn't satisfy my sex drive, so I've been hooking up with girls on the side just to satisfy my sex drive because I'm very high libido. Am I wrong for this or should I keep doing it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Is cheating wrong?o_O
 

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Keep doing you, do what makes you happy. You should dump her though, getting cheat on hurts.
I've just been thinking as long as she doesn't know about it then it's not a problem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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devilkingx2

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But she doesn't satisfy my sex drive
cheating is for when you have no other choice, like when you're married or living together and you literally can't get out of the relationship

there's no need to cheat when you can just talk to her about your issues and if that doesn't work at all, dump her and go find a new main girl who can satisfy you
 

ChristopherColumbus

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I'm a 20 year old guy and in a relationship with a girl that comes from a wealthy family. I've been dating her for 7 months. I enjoy being able to have great times with them and the assets they have. But she doesn't satisfy my sex drive, so I've been hooking up with girls on the side just to satisfy my sex drive because I'm very high libido. Am I wrong for this or should I keep doing it?
Where's your dignity man?
 
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