I'm a 20 year old guy and in a relationship with a girl that comes from a wealthy family. I've been dating her for 7 months. I enjoy being able to have great times with them and the assets they have. But she doesn't satisfy my sex drive, so I've been hooking up with girls on the side just to satisfy my sex drive because I'm very high libido. Am I wrong for this or should I keep doing it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Am I doing anything wrong?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Is cheating wrong?
I've just been thinking as long as she doesn't know about it then it's not a problem.
Anything you do in the dark will come to the light
I guess I've just been trying to be a 20 year old and "enjoy" everything without having to sacrifice anything.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
cheating is for when you have no other choice, like when you're married or living together and you literally can't get out of the relationship
there's no need to cheat when you can just talk to her about your issues and if that doesn't work at all, dump her and go find a new main girl who can satisfy you
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Where's your dignity man?
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