I'm a 20 year old guy and in a relationship with a girl that comes from a wealthy family. I've been dating her for 7 months. I enjoy being able to have great times with them and the assets they have. But she doesn't satisfy my sex drive, so I've been hooking up with girls on the side just to satisfy my sex drive because I'm very high libido. Am I wrong for this or should I keep doing it?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Am I doing anything wrong?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Is cheating wrong?
I've just been thinking as long as she doesn't know about it then it's not a problem.
Anything you do in the dark will come to the light
I guess I've just been trying to be a 20 year old and "enjoy" everything without having to sacrifice anything.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
cheating is for when you have no other choice, like when you're married or living together and you literally can't get out of the relationship
there's no need to cheat when you can just talk to her about your issues and if that doesn't work at all, dump her and go find a new main girl who can satisfy you
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Where's your dignity man?
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